OK....so here's my story, in a nutshell, of course.

Yesterday was my birthday. I am now officially 47. I am divorced...twice. Married the same high maintenance, pain-in-the-butt type twice. Been on my own for a year. No women since moving out in May '07. No action from the ex since about July '06.

I'm a little frustrated, to say the least. And not just because of lack of action. But more because I COMPLETELY have no clue and no game. At least, no game inside my head.

It is all mental. I have always been approached by women. I was never the initiator. It worked when I was younger. Not so well now.

Am I fat, ugly, undesirable, old looking, old acting, boring, or in any way a turn off to women? No. I have a lot of friends whose wives are dying for me to get hooked up with somebody.

I actually have a great 'in', in that I am a guitar player in a playing band. Women see me doing my thing. That should get me in the door, right? It kind of does, but, even though I know how to interact in public, I never take the bold high road and turn the corner to seducing a woman. I chit-chat for a few moments, and drop the ball. WTF????

What's up with that? It's borderline frustrating and depressing.

I'm not looking for another wife. I'm not even sure if i want a girlfriend. But I would like to be able to meet women and feel like I am in control of my own 'destiny', so to speak.

So here I am. And I am on a mission. So today, I am going to start in that direction. If you have ideas for me, I would appreciate it.

Thanks!

Jimmy Mac

Dont worry about it man, if you learn the techniques and apply what you've learnt with determination, you'll be suprised and will bring you success in one way or another.
I suggest you start off with david deangelo and mystery method, then take a look at some of the NLP stuff and juggler method.
Good Luck

Welcome to the forum.

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dont worry bro!