i thought about that game where one person has there hands palm up and ant the other person has theirs over and palms down. you know like in wedding crashers. now when i used to play as a kid we didn't actually touch hands. we just hovered. i don't know how the game is supposed to be played. i figure we can do "hands touching" and if a girl tells me "thats not how you play the game, the hands don't touch" i could tell her: "well thats how younger boys play it because they don't want to get called out on touching hands and being gay. but if you want to play the boy version i also get to punch you in the arm if you flinch three times" she should then accept it. then touch hands and you could neg on her hands being sweaty, or rough and caloused. or to tie it to the explanation, pause while touching and say "yeah, this IS gay". but really, are hands supposed to touch?