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PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:14 pm 
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What's up guys, I am in a sticky situation and need some advice. This isn't a basic PUA question I got, but whatever I wanna see what you think. Let me give you some background:

I am not the best with girls, but I know how to talk and carry myself and I can be really good at times. I've been getting better and better lately with just being myself and fooling around with girls, being cocky funny, etc.

Right now I am studying abroad and have recently met up with some old family friends of my father's. The man has a gorgeous daughter who is 20 years old that I have been talking to and would love to mack. There are 2 problems however. One, she has a boyfriend. Two, she only speaks little english and I only speak little of her language.

However to be honest, I really wanna mack her, I think it would be sick to get her to be my girlfriend. She comes from the exact same background as me which is very unique (never met a girl like that before), shes cool and hot, and her family loves me. I get the feeling her mom really likes me which could work to my favor. I know you guys are gonna say I am putting her on a pedastal and focusing too much on her, and I'm not gonna lie I do put her at a higher value than other girls I have been meeting, but I do have other options on the side.

So I need some advice because its hard talking to her in a PUA style because of the fact that she is a family friend, if you know what i mean, and also its hard to be cocky and funny since she doesnt pick up on the subtleties of the english language like sarcasm always. The boyfriend, yeah its a problem, but she told me straight up once that she was confused about him and doesnt know what she wants, they were fighting a lot, blah blah blah, I can get in there if I play my cards right I think.

So if you could tell me the best way you think to approach the situation, how to talk to her, what kinds of things to do with her, etc, that would be cool. I took her out to a bar one night after I had dinner with her family, and it went pretty well, we joked around and I told her she was gonna have to teach me to dance because she mentioned going to a club, to which she responded "with pleasure." I haven't shown her any desperation or too much attention so I am in a good spot I just have to play this right and I am trying to figure out what to do.



UPDATE: I went out for coffee with her yesterday and it was pretty chill, i made her laugh a lot and it was good but i feel that I am entering the friendship zone. I think I can turn it around because its not like i have seen her that many times where it is engrained in her head that i am a good friend, but i fucked up and asked too many interview style questions and i dont think i built attraction.

Also, she did mention the boyfriend and how he found out she was out at a bar with me one night and she got in a big fight, but that it was ok in the end because she said i was her american family friend. I joked it off and was like tell him you were with brad pitt. she brings up her boyfriend a decent amount and i dont know how to respond in these situations, so im thinking next time she complains ill say something like "he must make you really happy if you stay with him after all this fighting." not really sure


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