Alright, so i've realized that i havent been using the pick up techniques ive learned to their full potential, and as result, i havent been able to pickup any girl over an hb7. Now there is this REALLY sexy girl, id have to say she's an hb9.5, and she just got a job where i work, ive only talked to her a few times but i was a total AFC when i did, is there anyway to recover from that first impression?

Jordan

I say just act like that first time didn't happen. Just act pimp next time.

I agree with blak go about it with a different frame. If you act different and as though it never happened, to her it won't have either. If she is a 9.5 you need to realize its going to take some solid game and good negging to progress with her.

Remember you are the prize, her beauty doesn't mean shit compared to how much of a bad ass you are.

ask her what she has going on for her besides looks,

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B-Sweet

When you are the prize, you are like a diamond. If you allow her to become the prize, you become a cubix zarconia.

Everytime i try asking a girl something like that they usually are a smartass or say idk. I guess im not DHVing enough?

Jordan

Dude, This may sound bad, but think of a dog. When it cooperates, you reward it, when it doesn't, you freeze it out. I would say, You need to have DHV'ed a lot in order for you diverting your attention to be bad to her. So what i am trying to say is, Push/Pull, and DHV in general more. I would also neg her a bit. Then, you will have her feeding out of your hand.

Good Luck.

Just be yourself.
Personally i dont think you should game someone you work with, it can lead to a whole world of problems. But hey, what do I know?

peace

Have fun, pay her out a little and walk away, hit the attraction switch make sure you give yourself time constraints, don't stay long.

Once you've triggerd the switch a few times and shes into it, then do your compfort routine and then date.

If she dosn't give you validation ignore her, don't look at her, if she says something turn say um.. k, and turn away. Until she gets pissed off and confronts you, then be like "your cute when your angry, *wink, touch*", and then go back into your compfort, if she still has a bitch about it, go back to ignoring her, and dhv (dhv meaning go have fun with your friends let her see your cool and popular, not run routines on her) she needs to learn that being a dick around you dosn't help the interaction between you to. And she dosn't run your life.

Simple stuff.

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

Hey how we all doing?

First off it is a work situation so watch what you do. Secondly talk to everyone else about crazy things the fun and exciting elements of your life and just pretty much ignore her.

This will drive her insane, she will try to understand and analyze why you do not care>>>>>>>This makes you DIFFERENT.

And then either she will validate and qualify to gain your attention or she will try to pretend that it does not bother her. And thats when it happens an employee event where everyone is socializing and you can take total control.

ChowforNow,

the--------------------------------------->Saint

"Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin).

Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm dissappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistantly, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying."

"How did it start?Well, I dont know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking."

"Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me"

"Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see
in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what?
Let's.fuck"

"Scrutinize every word, memorize every line
I spit it once, refuel, reenergize, and rewind
I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind

alright, thxs guys ill try it out and let you know.

Jordan

good luck to you