So for 4 months and 1 day I have been in a relationship with a truly beautiful girl who I got through pickup! That was until half an hour ago when she told me she didn't want to be with me anymore! Now most of you may be saying "Awwww, poor Rox." Well fret not my friends because I will tell you how I broke up right! So for the past month and a half my ex has been in a serious battle with some depression brought on because she talked to an ex she never quite got over. It hurt me quite a bit and it has just been compacting stress on both of us. So I was talking to her tonight and she just started to cry and I asked her, "Whats wrong?" She replied saying she didn't want to make me more upset, I simply asked, "You don't want to go out anymore do you?" Boom. Completely nonchalant. I was able to do this because I had been thinking about ending it for quite sometime because it was hurting both of us. She told me how stressed she had been and how she kept thing about her ex and how she loved me but she didn't want to hurt me. This was the first step, accepting it. I told her it had honestly been bugging me a lot as well and I suggested we revert to "the way it used to be" as in FWB, woohoo!. Step 2, you set the terms. Don't be a pussy, say how its going to be. She said it was fine and I told her that I am actually really happy we worked it out, she instantly responded saying she felt much much better, which is good, leave her the same as or better than you got her. I then asked if she wanted to hangout tomorrow night and screw around, and I got an instant yes. So what do I get out of this, I no longer am tied down by a monogamous relationship, I still get to fuck her, I still know she cares about me, and I am a lot less stressed out. Which is step 3, look on the bright side. All and all my day is now exponentially better and I love life! I hope you guys enjoyed this and enjoyed seeing that relationships ending doesn't mean sorrow.
From one artist to another,
Rox

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Hey Rox,

That sounds awesome. It seems like you get the benefits of both worlds.
An deep insight is how you were able to just keep your cool and go through the steps systematically.

Here's an honest question, if she came back to you and said she wanted the relationship back again. Would you accept?

I don't think you did anything special. That doesn't seem as a break up, it seems as a mind fuck for both, a well constructed justification because you don't want to get over here. Things won't change infact the emotions will be a lot heavier causing you both to get hurt. If she's not over her boyfriend you can't fuck that thought out of her. I am not even sure if you were a rebound from the start and still are. Take a moment and think. I know I seem harsh but I've been in a similar situation where mysterious girl I couldn't figure her out for 4 months has been pushing and pulling me. I miss her a lot and when she said "she sees no future" I still went back, and the sex made me more attached and more acceptable towards her unacceptable behaviour. Put it this way, I was too weak for her frame so decided to save little pride I had left and moving on, and still am. Trust me bro, you want to at least cut contact for a while. Hopefully someone gives you better guidance. Move on, embrace the pain now, see how much better you will feel soon and avoid getting hurt worse and worse as you get more and more attached. Good luck

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The way I see it;

Id rather be single than cheated on, lied to, and disrespected

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I sort of am with Lava on this one. I had a similar situation happen to me as well. Seems great because you are still having sex, but just delays the inevitable. If you are in any way attached to this chica, you should just cut it off. As much as it may seem to be on your terms, you are actually on her terms. Think about it - you will help her move on from the breakup by being there for her and the sex will only last as long as SHE wants it to. I guess I would just suggest thinking about how it would be if she instantly cut off the sex one day, because that is going to happen eventually.

Just my opinion though. Its been a few weeks since your post. How is the situation going?

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