I should preface this with although this sounds like a major case of oneitis, I am interested and am practicing (or trying to practice) meeting new women. I just want to play a game.


A few months back I broke up with this girl. After over six months, she realized the love she had for me was that on the level of a good friend. It also didn't help that over the course of our relationship and coming to a head towards the end was that I was an immature little shit with a lot of self-work ahead of me. There is definitely a physical attraction, however, I know that much.

Fast forward about eight months later. We don't talk much, but last I hear she's in a relationship. I also feel that I'm at the point where the person I was eight months ago is not the person I am today.

To wrap things up so this doesn't become a multi-paragraphed rant, this is where the game comes in. I don't necessarily want to steal her from her current BF, but I want to spark her interest once again and hopefully put myself back in the running as a potential mate without getting stuck in the Friend Zone.


Any suggestions?

i take it you still have her number?

You are not going to like what I have to say.

You have oneitis, even if it may be a mild form of it. The fact that you're trying to hide it with linguistic acrobatics makes it even more obvious.

GFTOW.

Yeah, I pretty much expected the worst. I guess I do have a case of it. This post was mostly seeing if this is a good idea in the first place. The thing is, dating her again is pretty much a backseat to just fucking with her head and now all of a sudden being the guy she wanted to be with from the get-go, but can't have because she's committed. The "forbidden fruit" if you will.

And to the other poster, yeah. I have her number. If this is all a good idea, should I initiate a conversation or wait for her to?


(haha, and I'll definitely heed the GFTOW advice)

OK, so to shake any doubt I did a little Facebook sarging. Good some good vibes from girls, etc. etc.

But I think I still want to do this.

How should I react when she brings up the boyfriend? I figure it'll be a good way to disarm her by actually being happy for her (to a certain extent) and maybe even asking to meet him?