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| rain3 | PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 2:55 am | |
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Posts: 145 | | theres this chick. she gave me absolutley all the IOI's and everything. but she was really flaky and whenever id ask her out she would act like she wanted to then come up with some lame excuse.
i tried to break it off with her and freeze her out a few times but shed keep coming back and talking to me and flirting. i asked her whats going on and she eventually told me she didnt want to start a relationship with me since i was leaving to college. only 3 hours away but idk
and still, she talks to me all the time and shows IOI's.
she started chattin with me on msn today and posted "no matter how much you like someone sometimes theyre just not good for you"
i dont know what to do. she still IOI's me all the time and she came to my party last weekend just to hangout.
idk what i should do. i dont really have oneitis, like im not depressed about losing this girl at all. she just keeps talking to me and i dont know if i should befriend her or what. PLUS i need a prom date SOON!
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| Mr Fahrenheit | PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 3:43 am | |
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Location: Australia | | WTF, why are you taking her shit? Tell her to fuck and leave you alone or commit to something. You have less time on your hands than her and dont have the time to sit around and think about all her antics. I cant believe there are still people out there that let women do this...
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 5:28 am | |
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Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | I agree. Tell her that you don't have time to mess around like that, so unless she's gonna stop acting like a little girl and make up her mind, then you don't have time for her. Be serious about it and if she can't make up her mind, then don't bother dealing with her. Either she will come around and realise you are worth it, or you saved yourself a whole bunch of bullshit.
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| Chief | PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 5:55 am | |
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Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | IOIs are in the moment. They are not a sign of any sort of commitment, and they can turn into IODs the very next moment.
The A3 stage in the M3 model was designed for this very reason.
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| unforgiveable9 | PostPosted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 7:28 pm | |
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Posts: 38 | | well there are millions of beautiful women out there
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