I met this girl for maybe 2 weeks ago, she has a bf and I dont really feel like letting that deter me, she's smoking hot, I've got the IOI's and the number close, however I've never stolen a girl before so im looking for advice, actually I've started following a friend of mines advice so just a second opinion really.

I've been posting this situation on another forum and I'll copy some of my reports from there onto here so you can get some idea of the current situation.


First report

I met her at a mutual friends house where she regularly hangs out, appearently I met her a week before the first time we were properly introduced but I was pretty loaded and we were playing beer pong on opposing teams. Anyways I get a great indroduction from one of her close friends, who simply introduces me and tells her I'm awsome then wanders away. And we start talking, lots of eye contact, she reminds me that I met her a week ago but I was really drunk. I mostly just listened to her talk about a bad situation that she had been in earlier that day. By the end of the night shes all smiles and hugs, we hug goodbye and she goes home. At this point I decide to do a little investigating and I find out she has a BF she hasnt been with that long and things aren't going great with them.

So I decided im going for it.


4 days later

I'm going to friends house again tonight so I call a friend of mine who is notorious for stealing girlfriends. His advice was this

Dont be too blatant, flirt quietly, find excuses to touch her dont just say anything too overt.

Be patient, this is going to take time. She may be attracted to you but this other guy has put in a lot more work.

spend just enough time around her so that shes totally comfortable around you, but dont let yourself fall into the friend zone. Get on good terms with her friends because if she brings you up to them you want them to say good things about you.

Make her current boyfriend jealous but dont overdo it. jealousy breaks down trust and you cant have a relationship w/o trust. Make him work against himself.


Anyways I go to the party, shes all hugs and smiles and there's some ass slapping too (her slapping mine but hey im not picky) We get nice and liquored up and enjoy ourselfs, the whole night shes the one making excuses to touch me. Then at the end of the night she comes up to me gets my number and invites me to go over to her place tommorow (today) for a party, im fairly sure her boyfriend will be there. She did briefly mention her boyfriend tonight in a nuetral manner and I just totally ignored it.

next day



The party at her place was cancelled but I did meet her at a different place. She was friendly as usual but I couldn't get a good read on her, I was drunk and she was sober and exhausted and not really going to party much. I did also smoke a blunt with her and convince her to come along on a group activity involving myself and a few of her friends next weekend. Then she left, and I ended up choking a guy out in front of her two closest friends, I was completely justified and no one (including the guy who got choked) was mad after the situation but I did really kind of lose it, Im not sure if that will get back to her, or how that might effect my game. Also I get her number before she left even though she already had mine. I just said I didnt usually answer random numbers, so it wasnt really an indication of anything.


end report


So what do you guys think? Also, sorry for my lack of PUA lingo, I'll learn.



EDIT: Just realized theres a report section of this website, can a mod or admin please move this?

oops, just realized that there is a specific forum for reports. Can an admin or moderator move this please?

You like physically choked some other dude? That's messed up. Stop hanging around jackasses and you won't have to choke anybody. Also, hot babes will like you more if the people in your life are cool as shit.

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there was some liquor involved, generally with this group of people things like that dont happen.

haha choking a dude out in front of her 2 best freinds was not good.

was it over liquor?