Hey guys, what's up? I just got back from amsterdam(wrote a field report about this girl i think) and i'm about to head back to school on monday. I basically hooked up with this girl at a bar, hardcore style in the corner. Later on she got my number (i'm guessing from her friend who already has my number) and sent me a txted saying it was her and what not. I replied with "the night is still young sweets, but i'll talk to you later".

NExt day i cleared out my txt messages and i never saved her number..so i texted her friend "hey can i get steph's number?" she didn't respond. I dont know why to be honest....(this was 2 thursdays ago before spring break). School is starting up on monday as stated and i want her number so her and i can chill asap, but how do i go about doing this?

Would it be bad to text her friend again asking for her number? I really have no other option...i may see her at some point at the gym...but i don't wanna wait that long to be honest, especially since her and i seemed to have hit it off. Should i just wait until i randomly see her again? I feel stupid asking this girl twice for her number, but first time she didn't fucking respond...any ideas? Thanks for reading!

One thing you should not do is text her friend again, if she didn't text back the first time there's no reason why she will the second time.

You say that her friend gave her your number. Maybe her friend didn't text you back because she thinks, 'oh, it's all good I gave her his number and she probably just hasn't called him yet'

I'd play the waiting game if i were you, or find out where she's at and just happen to turn up. She has your number so maybe you should just wait it out till she texts you again.

I had a HB5.5 text me not so long ago asked for a guys #. All it said was 'have you got (thingys) number'. And i thought you cheeky bitch, only text me for that and not even texting to how you doing or anything. Maybe she felt like i did or she likes you too and doesn't want you two to get together. So you should call her and then it will be hard for her to refuse you the number. So in future text or call them and have a short conversation first then ask for the #. But its always best to call, this is why.

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Well this girl isn't exactly a hb9...maybe HB7 because she has a pretty face but her body is kind of thick, but i THINK i sense a great/compatible personality..which is why i wanted to pursue although i usually don't like heavier girls.

Honestly i have no idea how this girl thinks...so i don't know if making out with her...then after she texts me basically saying i'm still busy with my night and i'll talk to her later...will affect her idea towards me. I didn't just hook up with her for fun(well i did), but i actually like her somewhat which is why i don't want weeks to pass w/o advancing w/e may happen. School is only going to last a month in a half or so...which is why i'd rather not wait around and see if i magically run into her.

Seriously tho...i see her maybe once/twice a month, just have different schedules. School is back on tomorrow....and if i don't hear/run into her this following week..should i try her friend again NEXT week? Or do you guys seriously think it will be a turn off if i'm asking for her number twice now. Then again...maybe her friend didn't even tell her about me asking the first time..b/c i'm guessing if she did she would have called, but then again i can't vouch for anything b/c this girl and i just started to talk. Thanks for the advice so far!

Any ideas? First day of school today and i wanna know whether i should make a move or not.

Well it looks like you got two options, you run into this girl at school or you get her # from a friend. Her friend probably didn't tell her that you asked for #, you're right. So just do what i suggested, call her friend up, from a # she wont reconise, as being you, then if she does'nt pick up, you can call again a couple of times without seeming needy. Because she wont know it was you the first time.
Have a brief conversation with the friend then ask for the #. If the girl really likes you it wont matter.

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