Hi guys... this is going to be long... but I would like u guys to read it... and tell me.. what u think... I would really appreciate it...

Ok so here is goes....

I met this girl about 6 months ago...and back then... the first time we met she was the one to initiate the convo with me...(just FYI:- I had no idea about this pick up concept till couple weeks ago.) so anyways...being the AFC I was back then... I had no idea to actually what should I do to get her, and it seemed that she was the perfect one for me, but again had no idea wat to do... So she initiated the convo... It dies... I was back to nothing... and being an AFC... after I came to know about this PUA concept couple weeks ago... I actually started goin thru the forums here...lookin how u guys do it... started reading book The game couple days ago(almost half way thru it) and I started my theoretical studies....

Over the past six months we have found a lot about each other and know each other very well....and I feel some chemistry goin on between us... but when I ask her... if she would go out w/ me... I get she cannot go out with me... and then we keep talking... but when I kino her... or even kino escalate... she does not deny it...I just hugged her as I was leavin from my frnds place and she got there for a dance practice... and since I was kinda in rush I did not even talk to her that much... said hi...hugged her.... and now I am writing this right after this happened and I got home...(now I know for a fact that she is not taking this kino as a friendly touch)...lol...she knows it... and she even knows that I used to have a crush on her... when I was a complete AFC...(lol I kno I was being needy... its against the game rules... haha... but that was when I was an AFC...) so moving on...

I was talking to her last nite... and since I had been doing some studies by readin this forum and the game... she out of no where... asked me if I still liked her... which she has previously done as well... and previously I would say yes... but since I knew this time...some of it... took it as a shit test... and replied with if u need me... u gotta do better then that or somthing... and then she tell me that she cannot go out with anyone other then her school cuz her GPA was messed up... and she kept on...with the convo... I kno she gets a lot of attention from guys at her skool (another thing that I did.... being an AFC previously...provided her too much of that...) cuz like she is deadly pretty girl...lol... so I start negging her last night... from left to right... one after another... DHV'ing myself... DLV'ing her a bit...


my negs were just some of the basic one...
-anyone can dress u up but cannot take u out
-and she was being rude
-the average age neg...

so I do that... and man I felt it working like a charm...she would not get the negs in start but then would figure out and would want more attention..... I know I did way too many mistakes on this... since I am not PUA like u guys out there... but certainly I feel a lot relieved and happy about this even though it was a total failure last night and she tells me no... but now I kno this tricks work...

I kno I made too many mistakes...since this a case of transitioning into a beginner PUA from being an AFC....

I am not in the oneitis phase right now w/ this girl... and I know it...

My only question is I really think this is the girl for me... I have went out there... but I dont think that the other girls have got wat I like about this girl and lookin at the kino and that... I am still not fallin for her telling me she cannot go out with me... with her excuse...

Should I just end it??? Give her some room till late september since we have a festival coming up in late september... I was thinkin of makin my game solid in this summer by goin out w/ frnds and sarging... goin to gym physical transformation... change my dress style...hair style... the way I talk and act... and when I c her in september... I can play it out one more time on her... and there is a lot of ppl there at this festival...so it should not be hard to establish any social proof... demonstrate higher value... and by then...hopefully she wont even kno what hit me(like she wont even kno me)... cuz I would have been changed...(FYI:- my hairstyle...dressing style... is stilll of a AFC...I m workin on it... lol... and I can also use a boyfriend destroyer then if she happens to have one... lmaooo)

OR

I should keep meeting her... and play whenever I get a chance...

OR

take is as LJBF....

Just some additional Info.
-The Girl does NOT have a boy friend....
-And about me talking to her for SIX months... guys as I said a newbie here...was a AFC when I met her... and found this concept couple weeks ago...and now I am working on it....


Thanks u all...really appreciate it...

FIRSTLY
lol thats oneitis *sighs* anyways PUSH PULL her

freeze her out as well as show her disapproval and disinterest make her feel as if you have disqualitfied her as a girlfriend hit on other girls freely in front of her and any other dirty little tactic you can think of to help with push pull

my guess is that you aren't going to get anywhere with this girl if she DOESN'T have a BF and if she does then you are obviously stuck in LJBF and you want to know why???? Because you won't

Pull

the

trigger

You probably had your opportunity but didn't initiate it been talking to her for 6 months? there has been a chance there so stop wasting your time and either go for it and fail or go for it and succeed the choice is yours

BUT if you ABSOLUTELY MUST have this girl then push pull is the way to go even though you ARE stuck in oneitis which is a form of obsession by the way

~EeK

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No doubt one-itis. Give up for the love of God. You would be able to make more progress in 5 minutes with a girl you go out and meet today at a grocery store than you will on this one. Just looking out, and helping you keep your pimp hand strong.

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one-itis - agreed

I think the push-pull will work well. You will get her if you do that, and if you stop 'thinking' about it so much. The 'itis' will do that to you.

*Take the Pu$$y off the pedistal*

You're right. Asking you if you still liked her what a shit test. And that's BS that she cannot date someone from a different school. If she wanted to, she would. Just looking out bro.

Push-pull her. It's funny how fast she'll be asking for more of your attention.

Good Luck, keep us posted.

Sup Friends, this is my first of hopefully many post as I had no clue of an underground till recently, It sounds like the one itis, but If u want to game her u can... She is in what I call the friend zone. This was a horrible place to be when I was younger and only wanted ass I had put and been put in the "FRIEND ZONE" by some women after coming out of retirement of the game .. a 5 year hiatis, got a real hot bitch thought I was happy..., I'm back then all those bitches in the friend zone want me being my game was a lil sub par after being gone for a few years I only took one up on it so far but she and the others still won't leave me alone, this is good though this is always having ass on hand and attractive women to hit clubs with, which helps me dissarm alot of girls and guy's so in your case I think you should put her in the friend zone go game some other bitches let her see you with them it will increase your value. It's to late to move fast you cant be driving slow six months then hit the nos, be subtle, when you're out or around her pick up any hot girl around let her know you are a man. This will place her in your friend zone make her want u. you have to show a lack of intrest in her. and yes there are diffrent friend zone's she has her's and you have your's u have 2 place them in your's u can't be in thier's, that's why she has all the power. goodluck if u want any more advice on it hit me up Friend zone was one of my specialties.
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