hey. so i met a girl last night and was able to get an instant date going by changing the location with her and her friends. i was getting a couple ioi's but i dont think i was able to build up her comfort. she asked for my number, mainly because i think she wants a job from me, iwas using that to build value, i was probably self qualifying myself to her a bit much though. now shes texting me asking me for my facebook. im assuming i should pull away a bit. how exactly? i was thinking "so you can end up stalking me, ive heard that one before" any advice. go gently on me, its my first time here ;p

She's not cool enough for you to put her on your facebook..........

I didn't know we were at THAT point in our relationship yet what are you going to ask me to marry you next? Geez you women move so FAST!

How do I know that you aren't a sexual predator? You know how you women are alway drugging peoples drinks and getting on website to prey on unsuspecting people ALL women are SUCH sexual predators!

any of those is fine and any variation on any of them should work just fine

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hahahah thanks man, those are all amazing lol i appreciate it

I personally don't do numbers/networking just because it's a pain in the ass.
Unless you can do the face-to-face phone-to-phone method, which works really well.

ok, i asked "how do i know your not a sexual predator" she replies "hah i guess youll have to choose your poison" what should i say

my msn messenger is coolest494911@hotmail.com I will wait about 10 minutes and if you add me ill talk to you about it a bit but you cant expect people to sit here on this forum and deal out your life for you if you have msn get on and add me and ill talk to you for a minute otherwise im getting off the computer

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Well I waited my 10 minutes I would reply with something such as listen sweet heart if you want to take advantage of me you DON'T have to poison me

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i took care of it, i gave it "idk if your cool enough to be on my facebook, its kinda a big dea " if worked fine, i appreciate it though, ill message you some other time. thanks for the advice

Okay, obviously she knows what's going on.
Tell her, Oh you're a little player aren't you?? Naughty girl, you're obviously being very controllive.(not an actual word. :/ haha)
Don't worry, I'm the same way.
Which is exactly why this relationship might not work out.
Only one of us can control, and that's me.
Alrighty? Good. :PP