Not much in the way of an actual FR really, but actually kissed two rather hot girls last night.
It's so crazy how I felt like the ugliest guy in the world after getting flat out rejected after opening about 20 times on Saturday night, but then last night, 2 girls more or less threw themselves at me on the dancefloor.

I think I should have maybe made her chase me a bit for the kiss since she was clearly attracted in the way that she approached me, because after we kissed for a while, I tried talking to her, asking her some questions etc in order to build some comfort so that I wasn't just the makeout guy, but I wasn't able to keep her.

Another interaction of note was this gorgeous blonde girl at the bar. I opened her with an observation about her halloween outfit. I asked her a few questions, and she immediately started asking me things which almost NEVER happens, so it's a shame I wasn't able to capitalise on that more. I think I qualified her on the fact that she was friendly and talkative, but maybe that came across as confessing that i'm used to getting bad reactions from girls, lol and so DLV'd myself. Not sure. Either way, I guess I wasn't able to spike the interaction enough or make enough of an impact with my conversation and it fizzled out, though

Still, feeling more confident now than I did on Sunday morning after Saturdays bloodbath!

Fairly quiet night, but

At the bar. I'm trying to get served and notice in the mirror behind the bar that there is a hot girl behind me. As I'm contemplating how to open her, she brushed my back with her phone that she is using to text. I decide to use that as my 'in' and spin around and say ''You just stabbed me in the back with your phone on purpose!'' with a suspicious smile. She is laughs and says ''lol, did I?! I wondered why you span around. I didn't mean too''. I say ''Yes you did! I've met girls like you before. You just go around poking men in the back with your phone. It's what you do. Nobody knows why'' (I'm just talking complete shit here. I guess RSD would call it self amusing which 'builds attraction')

She laughs. I'm about to ask her what she's up to but i'm not sure if that would be a mistake based on some input in a previous FR breakdown (rapport questions too soon after opening) but in the moment I'm now not sure what best to carry on with, plus the barman is now tapping me on my back and wants his money for the round of beers, plus the bar is getting busy and i'm in the way and it's my first approach of the night and the girls want to get served. I pay the barman and tell the girl ''be careful with that thing!'(her phone) and she laughs as I walk away. It's still early.

In a different bar and as i'm walking back from the bathroom, one of my friends says to me ''There's 3 gorgeous girls and an older one! The older one and one of the hot ones has gone outside for a smoke. We're gonna go and have a smoke and open them. You open the 2 hot ones sitting down!'' I say 'ok' and walk back into the bar and there are 2 gorgeous girls sitting down. I open them and ask whether I look like a drug dealer. One of teh hotties plays along and starts pretending she wants drugs from me. I pull her close and start talking like a druggie, telling her I can take her to the moon and back. She's laughing. We've been riffing long enough that I figure i'm now allowed to ask her a 'normal' question? I dunno. I do anyway, and we talk a little about what we are up too tonight. Soon after, the older one and the other hottie come back from their smoke and sit down with the other 2 that i'm talking too. My friends are all being weak and now it's basically just me and the 4 girls. It turns out that the older one is the mother! We are all talking and chatting. At some point I kind of run out of conversation and I think I declare (to the mother) that I like daughter A almost just to fill in the gap.

Pretty sure that was a giant fuck up, but I kind of done it out of fear of having nothing to say. She tells me that I have no chance as daughter A likes tall, handsome, muscly tattoo'd guys. Not me! I laugh it off and tell her I can change and do steroids and get leg lengthening surgery. The mother briefly declares my love for daughter A to the girl herself who kindly confirms her mothers thoughts and kindly rejects me.
I'm now mainly talking to the mother and daughter B who is also gorgeous, and who (maybe i'm wrong) seemed to be giving a few IOI's. Certainly much more engaged than daughter A. But I just feel weird about trying to make a move on her when she saw me basically get rejected by daughter A. (DLV) - My friends are getting bored watching me and want to leave. I don't think i've got a shot with any of these and I decide to join them and move along

I go to a different bar and I spot an attractive black girl. Not super hot or even my type particularly, but she is attractive. I open her and say ''Hey! Do you like white boys?!'' She laughs and says ''maybe''. I say ''Good! I'm pretty white. I'm good with computers. I can't jump very high. I Burn in the sun''. I'm saying all of this with lots of kino as i'm talking into her ear. She's cracking up laughing and is comfortable with my touch. I assume I have attraction here. Memory is slightly hazy to be honest, but I think that I should have gone more into comfort here and asked her about herself and stuff (since I have attraction from her, and have showed my own intent through my touch and my open) but I think I carried on trying to ramp up the attraction and was talking nonsense and being a flirt instead. I could possibly have kissed her at some point but restrained myself. In the old days I'd have not kissed her out of fear But I don't really have that fear any more. I just go for it. However, I chose not to kiss her in order to 'make her chase a bit and invest

However, the whole time I could sense some resistance and she was shit testing me a fair bit and I wondered whether i'd read her attraction wrong. At one point I kind of gave up and assumed maybe she wasn't that into me and as I was on my way to the bathroom, one of her friends grabbed my arm and said something like ''My friend really likes you! She's never like this''. I told her ''Nahh...she hates me!'' She was like ''No No! try again!'' lol I went to the bathroom, came back, and my brother was talking to her now (not trying to pull her. Just talking as i'd introduced him to her earlier) I come back but she is still a little frosty towards me. My brother tells me that she likes me but thinks i'm a ''fuck boy''. I talk to the girl a little more. It's not really happening. I try suggest going somewhere just to confirm whether there's interest. She doesn't really seem up for it. It's getting late. I've drank more than I intended too, and I decide to throw the towel in.

I make a few short direct approaches as hail mary shots before I leave the bar, but no joy.

It might seem boring, but after last weekend (the 20 harsh, instant rejections in a rown night! ) It kind of felt like success.

First approach on a 3-set, one of whom was a 9 and was wearing the same style jacket as me. I opened her on that fact, and told her she was copying my style. She smiled. Was the first set of the night, and after opening, I didn't really 'follow through' as I couldn't really think of a 'riff' or a story and didn't just want to go into interview mode. After a few seconds of silence, she ejected.

I opened a girl on the dancefloor and commented on her dance moves. Tried getting a bit physical and gent;y pull her towards me a bit, but she wasn't attracted and she pulled away. next

I open a hot Forreign girl. Can't remember how I opened, unfortunately. We were talking for a few minutes. It was the best set up to that point, and I got a little physical at times whilst I was teasing her and stuff, but after a minute or so I was struggling to keep her attention. I kind of 'went for broke' and showed clear intent, but unfortunately, she wasn't too keen.

Stood in the smoking area, and 3 girls are walking down teh street past me. I call them towards me and convince them to come inside and they eventually agree. I meet then at their table a few minutes later and we all talk. I chat with the older one - (asked her her name and stuff) who is hot. About 30. She with a friend and her hot teenage niece who I want. After a while we all dance. I try to talk to the hot niece a little bit and comment about her dancing or her clothes or whatever but I can't 'hook' her, and she ejects a little bit after. Eventually all 3 leave. The older one was very friendly indeed, although I think she had a fiance anyway

Very late now. As i'm walking towards the exit, I spot a young girl and make one more hail mary approach! I just grab her and say something like ''You! I had to meet you. Who are you exactly!?'' lol. She's 18! humongous age gap, lol. I can't remember much about it, but we chat for a few minutes and it's going ok. So well in fact, that I let my ride go without me as I think I might pull her lol. She buys me a drink, We chat and flirt. After a while I get close to kissing her and she says something like ''there's no way i'm kissing you by the way!''. I lose a bit of hope but try to remain unnaffected. We are taking pics together and stuff. It's all going well....UNTIL...Some handsome forreign dude comes over and starts chatting too us. She seems instantly into him but for now we're all talking together. This is where it fukks up completely, lol. We all head to wards teh smoking area. The guy kind of 'cheers's' my glass after I make him laugh, and my glass falls on teh floor and smashes. Immediately, a bouncer runs over and throws me out. I guess he assumes i'm super drunk and droppping glasses, lol. I try to fight my cause, but they don't give a shiit here in the UK. I'm now outside on my own, and she's indoors with the amog.

Whilst I'm outside I try to chat up a very drunk hot Polish gilr sitting alone on teh bench. I stay in set for a while, but I can't build any attraction. Annoying as i'd love to bang her and I guess she can't have a boyfirned with her. I mean, She's sitting alone on a freezing cold night on a bench and she's hammered! Some dude she knows enters the set but soon leaves. I carry on trying to talk too her, but Eventuallly it fizzles out.

I've been outside in the cold for about 45 minutes now and eventually the girl and teh amog come outside, but now they look like a couple and are holding handds and stuff. I think 'fuck it' and approach her again whillst she's talking to him. She's now more frosty towards me. I ask her what she's up too, and she tells me that they're going. They walk off back to her house to bone. Fukk, lol.

Thanks for sharing your experience(field report). It have been an inspiration to me.

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That's quite funny considering how shit I am at this stuff even after all this time, but thanks for your encouragement!!

laid.
Not especially proud of this one! haha. Beer goggles!
Slightly unhappy about my approaches before that, though.
I really felt quite relaxed and confident and stuff, but most of the sets just barely spoke back making it super hard to get any long interactions going. Annoying as holy hell!!
Might be out again tonight to see if I can get some actual sets that last more than like 15 seconds under my belt!!

Lay report.
Best one in a while. 20 odd. blonde. 8/10

actual FR

I was also out on Friday when I got laid, but she was nothing to write home about at all. Border line embarrassing, in fact! (beer goggles !!) so I was keen to try to make amends and get a hotter girl. Happened much soon than i’d have thought!

I’m feeling rather relaxed, albeit slightly tired. I don’t usually go out 2 nights in a row.
First set is a hot girl who stands next to me at the bar to get served. She’s got on this crazy jacket. Looks like a yeti! I open her on it, and tell he I like it and that I want to cuddle her! She laughs. I riff off of the opener a little and she’s smiling and talking back which is good, but don’t now want to jump into the usual name/age stuff as I don’t want to be boring, but my mind goes a bit blank and I’m not sure what to say and I kind of more or less reject myself. Like, stop talking and basically talk to my friends instead. weak

About 10 minutes later, the same girl comes back with her friends and stands in the same place. Just talking amongst themselves. The girls friend notices me looking at the initial girl and calls me out playfully. We all talk a little. I ask them if they’re best friends bla bla. I get their names and ask them what they’re up too for the night. They say that they’re not sure. I invite them to come to the next bar with me. She says ‘we’re not leaving yet, but i’ll come and find you’. Should have got her number here I guess. Still, a very positive set compared to what i’m used too!

We are in a new bar now. I go outside and join 2 random girls on their table (like outside smoking area with tables where people just stand around. So it’s not like an intrusion. Hope that makes sense) There’s an extra drink on the table, and I ask them if it belongs to them. They say some guy just left it there. I go into some sort of daterape/rooffie skit and accuse them of trying to spike me or something. They laugh and They play along and soon after we are all bantering together. Another very good set. I didn’t really show much ‘intent’ though and after a little while, they told me they were going back inside. Again, probably not persistent enough on my part. I could have went with them or whatever

I’m standing near the bar and i’m kind of boucing along to the music and pretending to DJ, mixing imaginary records and stuff, and a very cure girl catches my eye and she’s noticing me ‘DJ’ing’ and smiling at me. I open her by accusing her of teasing me or something. We riff briefly. She’s Polish. Very attractive. She tells me I approached her a few weeks back lol!! haha. She’s got lots of friends with her, and I lose the set fairly fast. (i’d see her again briefly later on)

I open a girl on the dancefloor. Direct. She’s rude and dismisses me straight away.

I’m dancing and some girl grabs me and tells me to look after he friend whilst she goes to teh bar and she points! I look around and the girl who ‘needs looking after’ is the hot Polish girl from earlier. I think this must be a damn good sign, but when I approach her, I can kind of feel a slight wall is up. Strange. Can’t remember what we spoke about but I think the set died fairly soon. Annoying.
I’m assuming it’s not gonna happen for me tonight.

I spot this super hot blonde. A table of guys near her are all checking her out, looking at her I think ‘fuck it!”. She’s about 20. I open direct and pretty much just tell her that she’s hot. I’m 100% expecting to be told to fuck off, but she opens up straight away and is asking me questions and stuff! I switch it on a bit and soon we are laughing and stuff. I sense attraction and move her a few feet away from her friends (who i’d already briefly spoken too). I kiss her. I slowly escalate at the bar and am kind of brishing my hand over her pussy. This was a mistake I think and was risky, but I couldn’t help myself and I also didn’t even think i’d be able to pull her, so didn’t really think about it.

We basically agree to go somewhere (one of our places) and she tells me she needs to see her friends fast. I say i’ll go with her. She starts leading me to where she thinks they are. This bit was scary because I still have no idea how she done it, but she just vanished into a puff of smoke!! legit David Blaine stuff. I was walking behind her, look at her, I litreally blinked and then she’d gone! I searched for a few minutes and couldn’t find her but I found her friends who were asking me where she was! I was like ”I dunno. She vanished. Call her!!” they called her and luckily she turned up a few seconds later. We told the friends we were going, and then we went back to her place that she shares with a load of other air hostesses.

Makeout on bed. Sex. No LMR. Another huge age gap. Pretty sure I lied about my age and knocked off about a decade! lol

In terms of game, some of the interactions were better than usual, although the more I approach, the more I actually start to believe in Mark Mansons idea of yes/no/maybe girls, and that I was simply lucky enough to not approach many NO! girls last night and so I was able to reach the ‘hook’ point a little more than usual. The hot blonde told me this morning that she noticed me before and she hoped that i’d talk to her, and so I wonder if I can really pat myself of the back for pulling her!? Hopefully I can give myself at least a little credit

First time in a while I woke up with messages from friends like ”Did you pull that hot blonde!!!? Nice work!!! She was hot!!” kind of thing. Probably 2nd or 3rd hottest girl i’ve ever pulled (not that i’ve pulled that many! )

As I was doing the walk of shame this morning, I was felling good and I saw at least 5 absolute smoke shows doing their shopping or whatever, but even with the confidence from the previous night, I couldn’t open! Daygame takes absolute balls of steel, lol.

Where's choccy and the rest of my crew at?! I get lonely up in here...

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Yeah so the site works on mobile yay

Oh dear.

The site seems to have officially closed (not a great surprise - I could see it coming a good few months back)

Weird how we can still post. No new threads can be started, though.

I guess there's not much point in my posting my future FR's! lol

Thanks in particular to chocolatePUA, ocean and RC in particular for their input in this thread.

I've done better than I thought I would (target was 1 lay) although unfortunately I still don't
feel that far along after all this time, to be honest. Highlight however was the STUNNING 18 year old, LITERALLY young enough to be my daughter, and the air hostess from last week. Another hottie!

For old times sake; last FR

OK, so last night I was out with my model good looking friend who I talked about in one of my recent FR'S - the T.L.D.R of that night was a girl appraoched me, I ran some game on her. It was going well. She offered to buy me a drink. All going well and then my friend came over to say 'hi' to me, and instantly she was drooling over him and I went from fillet steak to chopped liver and the rest of the night was her desperately trying to seduce my mate. It felt bad.

So, I was out with him again last night. Something always happens when i'm out with him. The dynamic always seems to change in various ways when I am with him in particular.

3/4 of the night aren't even worth writing much about. I had pretty bad Approach anxiety all night. And my mate never EVER approaches girls, and so I guess it felt a bit more high pressure.

Throughout the night girls were trying to get his attention at the bar and on the dancefloor etc. Bumping into him. Brushing his arms etc.

Eventually I found my bollox and started making some approaches.

Group of girls: ''Hey girls, quick question for you!'' and went into some little opinion opener and all 3 girls were absolute cvnts! One was like ''We don't wanna talk to you'' and the other 2 just looked at me like a leper. I tried to keep it playful and be unaffected, and was like ''Ii ilove how friendly you all are! We should be best friends!'. One of them almost cracked a smile, but in general Like all 3 of them hated me. Not one friendly girl in the whole group. They weren't even amazingly hot or anything.

I open another girl who is with some friends and ask her what they are all celebrating. She looks at me like she's never spoken too a stranger before and like i'm super odd for talking to her, blinks a few times, and then literally walks away from me towards her friends as if she needs saving.

State is dropping a bit here! lol

I open a girl on the dancefloor with a comment about her small feet or something, and she is mildy receptive and we speak a bit, but straight away she is asking me if I can introduce her to my friends and she's telling me how hot he is. I laugh and introduce them, but my friend isn't really talking and just smiles at her and carries on dancing. After a few minutes of her trying to grind against him with him not really playing along, she ejects never to be seen again.

At this point, I had almost given up for the night. I felt as though there were a few girls who were actually maybe giving me some IOI's, 'accidentally' bumping into me and stuff, but I didn't open.

So we carried on dancing by ourselves, drinking and chatting/laughing. It's getting slightly late now and this is where some girl grabs my friend and is like ''She likes you!'' and points at some hot blonde: Czech girl. I'd say an 8

Within a few minutes my friend is kissing her. He NEVER does this. He must have thought she was rather hot. I'm talking to the girl who introduced them (average looking. Slim brunette. I've seen prettier. 6..5?) I'm just making small talk. Went into a silly roleplay about my friend marrying her friend. Said i'd bring her as my +1 to the wedding. Got a little physical, and within 5 minutes we were kissing (she was a horrible kisser)

At this point my friend says he's going to the bathroom. He doesn't come back! The hot Czech girl keeps asking me where he is, and i'm like ''You're never gonna see him again! Are you gonna cry?!!''. She laughs. The girl I was kissing disappears to dance and i'm not standing on the outskirts of the dancefloor with this HOT czech girl who liked me handsome mate!

I just start asking her about herself. I go into some little personal 'routine' which is a bit like a simple questions game. We are chatting and laughing. I make some comments about little things like her hair and her clothes and tease her for wearing her dressing gown in a club. I tell her to guess my age when she asks how old I am. PS - IT WAS (IS) MY BIRTHDAY WEEKEND!
She guesses like 30 which is younger than I am, but I pretend that i'm younger and act mock offended. She was only like 20.
I'm like ''Ok, go away. I don't care how sexy you are, i'm not gonna talk to you if you're gonna behave like this''. She cracks up laughing.

I start to wonder whether I actually have a shot here!

She starts asking me more and more questions and i'm leaning in a bit to talk in her ear and each time, i'm getting super close to her face. Our noses almost brush and she doesn't step back at all. IOI? Without an excuse, I put my hands on her hips and I carry on making small talk and stuff. Another of her young friends is behind me and she is kissing some dude who is well into his 30's/40's. Respect! However, the guy keeps banging into me since he's getting so into it with his girl. The girl notices and I make some joke about how he's basically fucking me. She cracks up laughing. I use this as a way to escalate the conversation and go into some sort of roleplay again as a way to sexualise AND heavy kino. A bit like JulienRSD ''What would you do if....'' thing. I'm grabbing her a lot now and she isn't stopping me at all. Again i'm talking to her when our noses nearly brush and I can almost FEEL her getting turned on. I tease her a few times and get close to kissing her. Eventually we just hold eye contact for a few seconds in silence and I go in for the kiss and she is into it. This giril CAN kiss, too, unlike her mate. It's nice. She gets more and more in too it. I'm the first to pull away each time, but it's fun and I go back a few times. Now i'm running my hands up and down her hips and ass and i'm kind of brushing her hard with the outside of my hand.

I'm still in slight shock at this point and I think 'fuck it. Lets see if I can make this happen!''. I ask her where she lives. She tells me the area and I accuse her of being rich. She mentions her friends and tells me she can't see them anymore. I start to think 'Shit, this is where I lose her!! I know it!!''. I just say, ''you'll never seem them again. They've all gone back to Czech without you''. She laughs and whilst she laughs I grab her and say ''let's go!'' and march her out.

However, as we get to the door, she spots one of her friends. SHIT!! They aren't speaking English and i'm temporarily out in the cold here. I try to act non-needy and pretend to text someone. I feel as though I will definitely lose her here, but to my surprise, a few seconds later, she grabs me and we walk out towards the cab rank.

At this point it's not been stated where we are even going. We get to the cab rank, ask her for her address, and tell the cab driver to take us there. She says ''So you're just inviting yourself back to my place?!''. I'm like ''Yeah. I think it's for the best. But you've gotta promist to be cool!''. lol. She doesn't fight me. We get into the cab. Go back to her place. We kiss on the bed. I finger her. She gets a condom out of the draw and we have sex for the next 40 mins or so. It's hella fun.