Right now, what she's doing is showing you everything that she can to keep you on the hook without meeting up with you. She knows that you are interested in going out on a date with her and if you started to believe a date wouldn't happen, you'd probably stop talking to her. You entertaining all of that is you playing the game with her.

I wouldn't contact her anymore if I were you. If she called me, I'd keep it cordial and after a few minutes I'd end the conversation without any excuses or explanation. If she's not really into you and was just using you to pass the time, she's going to go away. If she is into you or simply liked the attention that you gave her, she's going to inquire why your attitude towards her has changed. Your response to that is what will be important. Be up front and say that it doesn't seem like she's interested in meeting so you decided not to waste any more time by continuing to ask. If she just liked the attention you gave her, she'll probably figure out a way to point the finger back at you (guilt trip). If she's into you then she'll probably be more apologetic and attempt to prove that she does want to meet with you. The thing is that you need to be willing to walk away so that you don't overly invest and show her that you'll walk away so that she knows that she has to do some of the investing.

You play her game, you'll keep getting what she's giving you. You pretend to be cool with her blowing you off, you'll keep getting blown off.

You won't TEXT someone "gotta go someone is calling"...you'd just respond later or not at all. Same way you won't email someone that. If you're texting that to a chick as an obvious joke where you're doing her bs back at her and you want her to know you're blowing her off, ok...but if you're sending that to make her believe someone is really calling or at the door, thats very transparent. I won't advise lying as well, but if you do want to lie, dont be so blatant. A better way to lie would be to not respond and then reply later with "sorry, someone came over...blah blah blah." That makes sense with text communication.

OP, if the chick is wasting your time, why let her waste more? Even if you game her to come to a date, odds are she'll flake again. If she said "Im sorry for flaking I'll come over tonight" why would you even believe that or plan for that? You're way too desperate to meet this chick, and whether you act cooler, confront her or respond as usual, you're just risking more time on a dead end. If you had 5 other girls trying to spend time with you, would you even risk another flake from a chick who flaked 2x instead of seeing one of the others that night? If you were interviewing candidates for a job, would you continue speaking with a candidate who missed their interview 2 times? I'm sorry but you're highly desperate for this date, and if this chick were to even meet you, good luck acting chill enough to be attractive to her.

I haven't contacted her for days but if she gets in touch she would normally text and not call.Are you suggesting i ignore all her texts until she gives me a call?

i haven't talked to her for days.I haven't blocked her either but at one point she will get in touch.I forgot to add this i flaked on her the first time lol and she was like you flaked on me the first time(i was genuinely busy)and that i should understand her flaking on me because she is busy too.What i can bet my life is that she will get in touch probably through a text so what do i do? Should i completely ignore her? I am gonna post what she texts anyway on this thread and see what you guys think.

Get Tinder+ and spam a 50 mile radius.

So whats the complete story at this point? You're talking to a chick who expected you to pay, and wanted to bring a friend, is now ok with a solo date, you flaked on her she flaked on you and now you're not talking to her?

lol my problem is not sets,it is enough hot sets.I have a fuck buddy who is like a 7 but i want to push my boundaries.I want to get a regular rotation of 9s and 10s.I meet enough 9s and 10s during day game.Infact i am more likely to bump into a 10 during day game than online.I meet enough,my problem is just that i have a low success rate with them.

There are “9s and 10s” on Tinder. If you meet 10s on a regular basis as you suggest, you’re probably doing something wrong given the oneitis you have over this girl. Even if your game is flawless, it’s pretty silly to write off a popular way of meeting women without proper reason.

@JackZero I haven't contacted her for days and i won't.She will probably get in touch and my question is what response should i give her when she inevitably contacts me.She normally SPAM me so my question is should i be cool and talk to her like i normally do or should i change my tone be indifferent maybe or something like that.

Is it you or is it her? Are you trying to fix a fuck up that you haven't really revealed

my question is what response should i give her when she inevitably contacts me.