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PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 6:55 am 
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I was thinking that if your were going with a similar approach post-rejection, perhaps ending the date more organically a little while later and texting them that night would yield better dividends.

I’m surprised it’s very effective for you. Generally that kind of directness is mainly for filtering out specifically for the DTF girls but you’d expect to get a lot of rejection. It’s something I’ll try though, I won’t knock it until I’ve tested it.
Lol...this "it worked many times" is like when Arch said he's 40, but not 40. Or he said he doesnt pay for drinks on dates, to then well he doesnt pay when the date isnt going well. Or when he lives in a 50k population town to it being an 80k population. Or when he said dont even accept social media invites, to he always accepts social media invites. And thats all I could remember in the past month lol. Come back in a week with a new thread saying you did the "tell her your going home to do a project then" thing, you'll hear "patience is needed and 9s/10's need games and fun not downer talks."
I was gonna leave this, but since you and the OP are new, this is just bad advice and exaggeration. A chick not coming home with you in 45 mins doesnt mean she's conservative. Lol, reminds me of my delusional friend who thinks when a chick doesnt give him her number she's "shy." OP and Curtis, a tactic like this works, but as any "brazen" move expect a lower probability. Definitely work out and look your best, but dont expect telling chicks you're leaving when your escalation isnt successful to work more often than not. I'm all for looks are important, but I cant pretend like that means a grin and passive aggressiveness gets you further than playing it smart.


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I was thinking that if your were going with a similar approach post-rejection, perhaps ending the date more organically a little while later and texting them that night would yield better dividends.

I’m surprised it’s very effective for you. Generally that kind of directness is mainly for filtering out specifically for the DTF girls but you’d expect to get a lot of rejection. It’s something I’ll try though, I won’t knock it until I’ve tested it.
Lol...this "it worked many times" is like when Arch said he's 40, but not 40. Or he said he doesnt pay for drinks on dates, to then well he doesnt pay when the date isnt going well. Or when he lives in a 50k population town to it being an 80k population. Or when he said dont even accept social media invites, to he always accepts social media invites. And thats all I could remember in the past month lol. Come back in a week with a new thread saying you did the "tell her your going home to do a project then" thing, you'll hear "patience is needed and 9s/10's need games and fun not downer talks."
I was gonna leave this, but since you and the OP are new, this is just bad advice and exaggeration. A chick not coming home with you in 45 mins doesnt mean she's conservative. Lol, reminds me of my delusional friend who thinks when a chick doesnt give him her number she's "shy." OP and Curtis, a tactic like this works, but as any "brazen" move expect a lower probability. Definitely work out and look your best, but dont expect telling chicks you're leaving when your escalation isnt successful to work more often than not. I'm all for looks are important, but I cant pretend like that means a grin and passive aggressiveness gets you further than playing it smart.
Don't worry Arch. I got this.

Neo's problem is that he doesn't have abundance in his life. As Arch has tried to teach me, this may seem difficult for guys that don't practice extreme fitness. If you're going to sit around playing video games and downing carbs like most of the guys on this forum you cannot experience what Arch tries to explain. Fitness and unapologetically going for what you want is like catnip for 9's and 10's. Neo, wouldn't you like it if girls would text you after you had the balls to call it a night, "If you're not too busy with your project, can I come over now?", instead of you sitting at the bar begging and pleading her to come home with you. That's what you'll get used to getting when you act like a dominant man. That's called abundance.

All the rest of that are parables. It helps you understand what you can do and let's you know that there are no limits whether you are in a small town or a big city, young or old, reclusive or social, rich or poor. It's more about the lesson the story teaches than the consistency. The possibilities are endless.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 10:43 am 
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OP, Neo and Jack are in a dry spell, and picking fights over tiny things because they're frustrated. They're honestly arguing over me saying "I'm 40" and/or "in my 40's", or if I got the exact population of my town right. Men who get laid on a regular basis don't worry about this kind of shit...or dwell on it.

They do have good advice though sometimes, but I'm getting a stronger and stronger "armchair warrior" vibe from both these days. however, I do wish them well!

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OP, Neo and Jack are in a dry spell, and picking fights over tiny things because they're frustrated. They're honestly arguing over me saying "I'm 40" and/or "in my 40's", or if I got the exact population of my town right. Men who get laid on a regular basis don't worry about this kind of shit...or dwell on it.

They do have good advice though sometimes, but I'm getting a stronger and stronger "armchair warrior" vibe from both these days. however, I do wish them well!
What the hell, Arch? After I put Neo in his place for you, you turn on me like this? You saying that you're 40 for years means you're in your 40's even though you started making that claim in your 30's...nothing dishonest about how that sounds. Not knowing the population of your own town...who really knows that? Saying you never pay for dates and then later saying that you do...that's not even worth mentioning. Saying all of your dates end in at least with a bj or you don't speak to the woman again but at the same time advocate patience...those are only contradictory if you read it literally. I say that you should continue to say what you want and we can make it sound right later. I got your back. #TeamStanton #DominantMen #49equals40

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 1:04 pm 
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Arch and Jack should both provide the DOB on their license imho


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OP, Neo and Jack are in a dry spell, and picking fights over tiny things because they're frustrated. They're honestly arguing over me saying "I'm 40" and/or "in my 40's", or if I got the exact population of my town right. Men who get laid on a regular basis don't worry about this kind of shit...or dwell on it.

They do have good advice though sometimes, but I'm getting a stronger and stronger "armchair warrior" vibe from both these days. however, I do wish them well!
Yeah OP the guy whose stories change is getting armchair warrior vibes from US. He's not being dishonest.. He just doesn't know his age.
Direct to you Arch and your flunky Jack Zero... I and the real Jack don't post here to exaggerate to clueless guys looking for help. We actually give a fuck for the guys trying to be better so yeah we dwell on your bs . I don't agree with many posters advice but you're the only one who downright lies to give advice. Should we just lay back and watch you give tactics that we know won't work to the degree you describe? If you're actually getting laid,why lie or exaggerate? As I've said before I actually thought you were somewhat honest guy but you look silly talking about who is armchair when the armchair guys actually offered to show themselves while you made excuses. Lol you a catfish.
I'll use this to help the new guys:if you're talking to a chick online whose story changes and she ain't willing to SPAM.. She's a catfish. Wouldn't you agree Arch?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 1:21 pm 
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Arch and Jack should both provide the DOB on their license imho
I'm 30 hence 87 in name. If you asked me a year ago I was 29. 3 years ago 27.A year from now I'll say in my 30s or 31...not 30 lol. I have no idea why someone would say 40 when they're 45 to men online. Im prob not getting laid enough because maybe if I was at Archs level I'd forget how old I was. Heck, if I had made this "mistake" Arch did multiple times, when caught I'd be real and just say shit im 45...Im kinda insecure about my age deep down so my default is 40 lol. I wouldnt try to pass this and the other lies off as wordplay.

Arch's age doesnt matter; its that when you have someone who lies about silly stuff and then is telling you they get great success from something that you know success would be limited, you gotta raise an eyebrow. Same shit with chicks...if a chick is telling you bs, be careful.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 17, 2017 2:48 pm 
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I don't see what the need is to lie about age, so I am inclined to believe him. His splitting the bill idgaf approach looks cool to outsiders, but age is a bit irrelevant. His game isn't necessarily age dependant unless he's really under 16.

In fairness, it does read as a little odd however claiming to be in your forties when you're 39 and then claiming to be 40 when you're 41.


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I don't see what the need is to lie about age, so I am inclined to believe him. His splitting the bill idgaf approach looks cool to outsiders, but age is a bit irrelevant. His game isn't necessarily age dependant unless he's really under 16.

In fairness, it does read as a little odd however claiming to be in your forties when you're 39 and then claiming to be 40 when you're 41.
I don't see a reason to as well. When I was 20 to 22 if I met a 25yr old at the bar half the time I'd lie and say I was 25. But not the guys lol. And I'd tell you it was a lie not tell you well I'm 25ish. Look you tell me you live in London I have no reason to not believe you. You tell me later without moving you live in Paris and now it's Australia I roll my eyes. And then when you say things that don't add up I gotta think you're just telling tales. If Archs tales motivate you to workout great that will help tremendously. But don't expect the great success with what he advises.


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I don't see what the need is to lie about age, so I am inclined to believe him. His splitting the bill idgaf approach looks cool to outsiders, but age is a bit irrelevant. His game isn't necessarily age dependant unless he's really under 16.

In fairness, it does read as a little odd however claiming to be in your forties when you're 39 and then claiming to be 40 when you're 41.
How many times does Arch have to keep explaining to you carb faced armchair warriors that he is 41 and only said 40 so you guys know that you can do it? If you guys spent more time getting laid than worrying about something as silly as honesty you guys would be happier. And again, Arch will not pay unless the girl is enthusiastic. It's a way that dominant men let the girl know that he's doing the choosing and not her. If she's not showing the proper amount of enthusiasm she clearly knows that she's not being chosen. #TeamStanton #39isTheNew40

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2017 2:38 am 
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I don't see what the need is to lie about age, so I am inclined to believe him. His splitting the bill idgaf approach looks cool to outsiders, but age is a bit irrelevant. His game isn't necessarily age dependant unless he's really under 16.

In fairness, it does read as a little odd however claiming to be in your forties when you're 39 and then claiming to be 40 when you're 41.

Actually, I said I'm "in my 40's" in a post last month on this forum.
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Arch and Jack should both provide the DOB on their license imho
I already posted even better. I've posted a photo of my fitness gf holding a sign teasing Jack (and R.C. at one point, lol). And I've posted a pic of me with my girl, and a pic of me with two girls in a threesome from this spring. all verifiable by the same room.

I bit better than a DOB. ;)

My game is backed up with images of the women in my life.

Neo and Jack are incredulous, because they're struggling. I've offered to help Jack. Still would, because despite him always nipping at my heels in a weird way, I like to see people succeed.

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Neo and Jack are incredulous, because they're struggling. I've offered to help Jack. Still would, because despite him always nipping at my heels in a weird way, I like to see people succeed.
Arch, again I apologize for ever doubting you. You are fucking awesome. I appreciate your offer to help me because I do want to succeed. Let's set up a time and date and do this on SPAM. #TeamStanton #OfferAccepted #SPAM

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 18, 2017 4:20 am 
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I already posted even better. I've posted a photo of my fitness gf holding a sign teasing Jack (and R.C. at one point, lol). And I've posted a pic of me with my girl, and a pic of me with two girls in a threesome from this spring. all verifiable by the same room.

I bit better than a DOB. ;)
The thing with being caught in multiple lies, is it makes it difficult for people to believe anything you say. Now, when you posted a picture of a chick hiding her face alone, I believed you and stated that publicly. Then, when Jack started to point out your lies, and I started to notice them myself, I got suspicious. Let's be real, your stories change all the time and I still cant think of a reason a guy would say Im 40 CLEARLY but isnt. When Eddie said lets all talk on SPAM, I even said cool, connected with offline and figured it would good opportunity to just better communicate. Even then, I even stated in that thread I believe you were what you said you were and figured it would be chill with everyone getting confirmation that we were all real guys not bsing onlne. But when you dodged that simple request, the changing stories you had stood out more and Jack's whole you paid some chick on fiver to take a picture made sense. Now, all of that was respectful and if you're honest with yourself, you can understand someone thinking shit is fishy. See, if you'd lie about your age and city, how can I believe you really didnt pay a chick? Or heck, that could be your gf but you could be a sugar daddy. Point is, when you contradict your own statements so much and we have to PULL the truth from you, how can we trust photos? Eddies plan was good, chat and you can tell who's real. You see who has carb face and needs to hit the gym. Hopefully everyone is real, and guys just have a friendly convo and share.
Jack posted about 3 pictures of him with diff chicks to respond to you...you shitted on the chicks. Now, if you want the forum's opinion on who had hotter, shouldve just asked. But you dodged that. What was it...a couple yrs ago a poster and I were supposed to go back and forth with their hot women pics , I threw up 1st picture of a chick in underwear in my apt, showed her face directly and showed proof it was my place and pic of us on a date, and actually told the forum to judge who had hotter. The poster disappeared. Now, that was me being childish but I at least was confident enough in my chicks to let the forum judge. Even bet whoever lost could never post again in the forum lol. Think it was the "Sexodus" thread. My pt with all that is you challenged Jack, then decided to be the sole judge of the challenge. If you think Jack's chicks are less hot than yours let the forum weigh in. But thats old news..its just weird to me that you posted a picture vs 3 and act like you should decide whose picture mattered. As to pic of you and 3 some, I never heard of or saw that.
All of that above, was respectful and just the reasons now that when you contradict yourself it stands out more. You typically have most non newbie posters calling you out so maybe now you see that someone doesnt have to be struggling with women to question what you say.


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You're over-invested, Neo. And getting weird.

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You're over-invested, Neo. And getting weird.
+1 Arch.

BTW...when do you want to get together on SPAM for the help that you have offered?

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