Last night I was able to break a HB10 away from her set. This was my first attempt and success in trying to do so. I ran a really good mix of game and got a lot of kino in return. I really wanted to make sure that I played this one right so I told her that I could tell her what type of girl she is. I looked at her hands earlier in the conversation and told her that she is a boarder. (be it snowboarding, surfing, etc. etc.) Her eyes lit up. She said that she just got back from 2 days snowboarding and then 1 day of surfing. (west coast of canada is awesome) She asked me what else I could tell... so I ran the cube. In the middle of the analysis of the answers she was giving off an IOI stare-down that made me stop talking. She turned red. I had explained earlier that I had to leave soon, and now I was running late. I asked if we could continue this conversation at a later time and she said she'd like that.

I was working the 'I'm not going to give her my name until she asks' and when she did, I told her.

I wanted to run the same with the number, but she didn't ask, and I didn't ask.

Should I have just asked? How can I get her to offer it to me, without me asking for it?

I haven't blown this because we set-up opportunity to 'bump' into each other. She works at a clothing store and our birthdays are days apart so we will probably be back at the same bar for that night.

Please help.

Omg you already had her interested I think anything would have worked at this point.

OK according the MM at this point you should say, "Lets trade numbers so we can continue this conversation later".
or "give me your number and we can talk some more later".

Notice how you don't ask "can I have your number?" because this gives her the oppertunity to simply answer no.

Also I don't think girls will ask you for your number first, why? you ask, bacause they don't want to be held responsible from whatever happens afterwards. They don't want to feel slutty or easy, remember she will have to tell her friends that she had to ask you for your number.

If you have gotten through the phases correctly,attraction---comfort-seduction, I see nothing wrong with just asking for her number. Best way is to do so indirectly. Don't act desperate when asking for it and remember your not a thief robbing the bank so don't just grab the number and run, just stay awhile a bit longer and thank her for the company or something.

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Style in the Annihilation Method:
After all this time thinking of number closes, I've found that just tearing a piece of paper in two, handing one to her, and writing your number down is very effective.

Don't even tell her. Just hand her the paper. She knows what to do.

EASY, you obviously built enough attraction to isolate, when you had to leave you could have handed her your phone and TOLD her to put her number in and she would have OR you could go cocky&funny and say "Gee, I wish there was some way we could keep in touch, you would think with all the technology we have these days we would have a way to contact eachother...(she offers number) IF she doesnt offer, pull out your own phone and say "do you have one of these" and you're in bro!

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u had that sorted mate, anyway next time just ask for it after a bit of conversation and be like, i tell you wat if forgot last time, (pause) to get ur number this is very gary brodski and will work by the sounds of wats happened so far, but if u have some kind of thing against taking her number then give her users and say her take my number, and call me, if shes interested sounds to me she is she will call if not boo hoo no biggy, and for the hand thing u were pretty lucky on that but nice work. safe gaming

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