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Two ways of looking at it; A chick who has already said she expects you to pay and is adamant about bringing a friend will meet you in public to most likely drink or eat off of your pocket;
1. You could see that that the odds are stacked against you, she's not starting off open to seduction so save your time and your money.
2. Take the stacked odds, go for the fun and practice. Go on the long shots to build your game. Take the tougher route to be better. I could kinda see the "what do you have to lose" angle, but I'd just say better to go to the bar and meet 2 or more chicks if you want to practice dealing with 2 women. You'd have more of these opportunities at the bar if that what you're after.
The chick does not drink at all.i Don't drink too so i rarely do night game.I usually do day game and a bit of online game.If i go on a date,it is usually coffee and stuff like that.She has a foot injury for now.I will ask her to a one on one date after she recovers.Oh i forgot to tell you guys another set pulled this on me last week .I wanted to meet her and she was like i am with my cousin and i have to come with her.I said no i am not comfortable with that,it is either you come alone or we postpone the date to another day.Guess what? she ditched her cousin immediately and we met the same day! I just didn't find her that attractive in person and she was boring so i never pursued her.She was at best a 5 or a 6.Now this second set is much more attractive.She is probably the cutest set i am gaming now she is a 9 at least.That probably explains her attitude.She is probably getting used to getting her way.I made a list of all the chicks i fucked and none were ones who turned up with another chick on the first date.It is not a coincidence.
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Joking aside, OP, I'm glad you have enough experience with this situation that you understand it for what it really is. You're being realistic because of that. You really didn't need the advice and it is more likely that you have more experience in this specific type of situation than some of the guys advising you. So go with your gut.
Yes i have had experiences with such kind of sets and the experiences are not good lol.i have never slept with a chick who came with another on the first date.This one had the courtesy to at least ask if she wants to come with another chick but there are ones who don't ask at all.You just find the other chick with her and those ones are the worst in my opinion.It usually goes south.I don't know maybe i don't have good game or something but it never worked for me.
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My advice is don't go and if you do go, bring a handsome friend so you can isolate the girl you like.
A bull elk doesn't invite the spike bucks to the harem. The OP has a chance to learn how to handle two women on his own.
Invaluable learning experience.
Inviting another male along is a crutch.
It is not i have never tried it.I have tried a lot of the times and usually the following are the observations i made.
1.most chicks who do this are young and very attractive.I rarely get unattractive girls asking to come with a friend on the first date and even if they do they cave in the moment i suggest we make it another day.This tells me that the attractive ones pull this stunt a lot of times.
2.they are college girls so they expect you to pay for everything.
3.It usually goes south because the reason why they ask to come with a friend is very much likely because they are not interested at all in the first place.If she is uncomfortable or a bit afraid,i suggest a very public place ,probably a very well known restaurant where she will feel safe.I have made that suggestion to some chicks who later changed their mind and were like okay if it is going to be public then we can meet .The ones who still insist on coming with a friend are ones who later seem not to be interested.usually what happens is that they are very young probably college girls so you pay for both her and her friend and then they have fun.I try my best give them a good time then later i realize the chick either has a boyfriend or just wants to be friends and is not interested in dating me.I don't think it is a coincidence at all because it is a pattern.