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Oh look. Arch is back to giving advice. You gonna keep dodging Eddy's proposal still or what?
@OP, would a woman that is interested in you purposely put herself in a position where things couldn't get intimate? You know, like bring a friend?
Yes that is my thinking.usually when a girl asks to come with a friend it could be out of fear especially if you met online but some do so especially with the young girls, just to fuck with you.So what i do is ask them if they are uncomfortable meeting me alone. If they say yes, i suggest that she suggests the time and place where she will feel comfortable but with the condition that she comes alone.I suggested the same to this chick and when i suggested that she said she can't meet me alone and went on to say 'let's just chat then".
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Did you ask why she wants to bring her friend?
Yes and she said because it is our first time.i asked if she is afraid she said No.Then i asked whether she must come with a friend for us to meet.She said yes and then proceeded to say 'let's just chat then'
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She insists she has to come with a friend to our date.
You: Is your friend getting naked, too?
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i was a bit taken aback by that because usually when a chick really wants you,she turns up alone and also she is a bit younger than i am,a college student in her first year i think and this crowd of late have some weird tendencies. One being that they are obsessed with an app called snapchat. I don't know if anyone encountered that kind of problem where you take out this young college girls and all they wanna do is take snaps and usually they like going out in groups so when you ask out one,she would come with a couple of friends. Doesn't happen often but sometimes it does with this college girls.
I don't see how this is a problem.
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Am i just over thinking this?
Yes.
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And finally and more alarming is that i found out that i once hit on her elder sister and we ended up fighting.I met the elder sister on Facebook. She gave me her number.I asked her out but she flaked a lot and i got pissed off and i ranted at her and she ended up blocking me.
Neurotic, crazy behavior. Learn to control your emotions.
Go on the date, pay for nothing. An hour in, invite them to your place. Then use the social media thing they so love, ask them to kiss each other while you take a Snap.
i can't be that sexual because i tried a little bit and she didn't seem keen so i pulled back plus she suggested that she expects me to pay for everything.So if i go on a date with her friend i am certain i will pay for everything.
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I wouldn’t see her then. If you want to, fine, just make sure not to pay for anything of theirs. Not parking, not drinks, nada because as soon as she brings a friend it isn’t a date.
She already suggested that i will pay for everything so i am certain i will be asked to foot the bill if i go on a date with her and her friend.
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Personally, I wouldn't bother if someone else was there and added baggage with her sister.
If you are Hell bent on it, then ask if her friend is female and single then invite a handsome pal of your own along.
yes their is baggage with her sister but she is incredibly cute.I also don't have a wing.my wing moved away a couple of years ago and i never bothered to get another wing because most of my friends are not into game plus i prefer sarging alone.