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To spare you the story about this one girl that's so special...
Is it better to forget her and move on somehow or, option B) to work so hard on yourself and improve so much until you get her. It's like 'The Great Gatsby'. It motivates me so much, I mean, if I knew for sure that I have a shot with her, like, do this and that and you will ger her, that's a way to get me into the gym, to eat right, to improve fashion...
Its NEVER worth it.
Anyone thats ever gotten the girl they wanted, the car they wanted, or the house they wanted will tell you that they didn't care for it too much after they obtained it. Because the game is over, the challenge is over, and all of the mental energy put into getting it was far more valuable than the thing itself. And yes I've comparing the woman to cars and a house because you don't KNOW HER. And thus, you only want to possess her the way you would possess a house or a car. You want the car because of how it looks/feels, the house because of the way it looks, and the woman because of how she looks. If suddenly found out that that car didn't drive they way you thought, that it stopped on its own, and did what it wanted you would hate that car. Its the fantasy you're in love with not the person, and that fantasy is in your head and your head only.
It's always better to learn the lessons from those who've done it before you so you don't have to slip. You can slip in ways they never were able to and learn from that and teach others. I say all of this to say, its not worth it,but if you're too stubborn to take the advice from those who know, go find out. Get your self together, start approaching women, build your confidence, be with other women, and then go get the girl you want. And come back so we can tell you we told you so.
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