when I go to talk to a girl, my goal is to be accepted.

I know this is the wrong frame to approach a girl, but I can't help it.

How do I stop wanting to be accepted?

"Is this girl good enough for me?" Is how you approach every encounter.

However, this is not really something you fake. It's acquired over time, by combing many small successes with women, and continued psychical, mental, career improvements in your own life.

When you sleep with enough women, make them orgasm at will, and understand how to be emotionally-centered and patient with women, you develop a very fine sense of what it is you are attracted to. And you go after that type, ON SIGHT. You being to organically qualify women, not needing to be accepted.

I also advise guys who are struggling to lower their standards, so they can accrue actual experiences with women which will have a positive snowball effect in all areas.

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The problem is, I have no standards. I am interested in every girl that has looks good. That's all that matters to me unfortunately.

sounds like most guys, lol. We are attracted to women who look good. i don't see the problem in your comment.

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There’s no problem with only caring if a girl is hot enough. It sounds more like you need some basic confidence. You have to be able to be happy aline. My suggestion? While you keeping hunting for bitches set some unrelated goals that you can work towards incrementally. Hell just clean your room that’s a start.

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Have a life that women want to be part of.

I don't know what you guys expect with these questions. There isn't any magic switch you just flick and suddenly you're confident. And there isn't any magic advice I can give that will overnight turn you into a demigod.

Build a life that's worth living. Have a good social group. Have people to go and out with. Have hobbies that you think are cool and practice them. Have a great career.
Then you'll not need to be accepted by anyone.

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The more you get to know women, the way they think, and operate, the less you will want to be accepted by them.

Do you actually approach women though?

I find that the only guys that ask these types of questions, are guys that aren't actually putting in the effort and work for what this website is all about. You're here to learn to effectively PICK UP women. How many women have you approached in total in the last month?

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