You do get that people can workout, travel, work, have a social life, hobbies, dating life AND respond to you as well right? Heck I just replied to 4 emails before I got to your post while waiting for lunch. When you quote and post all those random articles... What's the difference? If you can't multitask that's on you. Wasnt trying to call you out so no need to get defensive.

When you said they request months after ghosting.. I thought that's different so ok.. But then I gotta wonder how they find you unless they know your full name? I've never used tinder so maybe that's how it works.

And lol man I don't know where you're from where going to the gym is something to talk about. I got a room dedicated to fitness at my place and a gym membership I shouldn't be paying for. 4 days a week I'm in my gym room with running, soccer and volleyball once week. Fitness isn't a big deal... Maybe where you are it's rare for people to work out but here it's nothing. Even my married friends work out and come to soccer. You seriously need to explore the world if you think working out is some achievement.

LMAO. Strawman Arch back at it again. I don't have a job, I have a career.

The problem is that YOU say shit that doesn't match. Be consistent and clear and you wouldn't have any problems. Quit saying shit that don't match. Quit getting defensive and attempting to throw someone else under the bus for something that you said or implied.
Do you have a job? I don't have time for that during business hours.

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Do you know how I know Jack and Neo aren't getting laid on the regular?

They argue about everything. Super uptight, unable to let small things go, picking battles out of thin air.

Come on guys, up your game, lol.

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If we got laid more would we not see a contradiction? Does having sex make you not care about misinformation targeting struggling guys?

Not sure about the uptight thing because you preach that guys have to follow rules about things and Neo and I often talk about relaxing and being comfortable with who you are. But okay...you think we're uptight.

Here's my question that you will do everything to avoid answering. Do you really think that when you give advice to someone and that advice seems to contradict your stories and anecdotes about your life, that those are small things that should be let go?

Second question that you will do everything to avoid answering. Do you think someone asking you to explain something or pointing out inconsistencies in your statements are battles? Maybe I'm different than you but there has never been one time on the forum when someone asks me to clear something up that I've had a problem in doing so.

I try to avoid calling you a liar too much Arch because it's a forum and anyone can say what they want but two signs of lying is inconsistency and contradictions which you do more than anyone on the forum. A third sign of a liar is that when they are getting caught in lies is that they try to discredit the people who they suspect are exposing the lies(narcissists do this a lot too). This is not something that I've made up, you can read it in numerous psychology books and psychology articles or how you like to put it...it's science.

You know how a lot of guys talk about shit tests? Actions like you do are what cause them. They put themselves in the position to be viewed suspiciously. A guy that's being truthful can truthfully respond, the response makes sense and then the world keeps spinning. You don't do that. You respond, you don't make sense, then you start making claims about those you're responding to.

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Guys, chillax.

We had to reschedule today's practice and bowling.

Just can't grasp how over the weekend she sent me sexy pics and there was flirting, and now it seems like it's all gone. I have a feeling she changed her behaviour. I obviously fell for her too much too fast. I don't think I showed her that too much, as I only texted/flirted as long as she was too.

I just want to save my ass at this point. I can already see myself going down the one-itis road.Anything else I can do (beside gaming other girls) to not think about her and get high hopes?

God I hate these games...

What is she getting out of this outside of flirting with you? If nothing is coming from the flirting, as in you not at least attempting to meet up with her, then it becomes nothing more than a game and at some point games stop being fun.

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We are going to meet. But it's clear that it's not a date. We will practice songs and then go on a drink, I guess she means as friends. Now with her getting more meh I'm not sure anymore if she's attracted to me and I'm afraid of hinting that it's a date cause it might fuck up our musical cooperation. I guess I have to risk either ever dating her or ever playing with her.

Let me clear up what I mean when I say "meet up". I mean a meeting that will have some sort of physical affection shown between the two of you. Not talking as friends.

Here's what I believe is going on (and I could be wrong). She's into you and she's been attempting to let you know that without saying anything that would put her in a negative light because she does have a boyfriend. Now she is waiting for you to act on all of her hints. Maybe she's getting cold because you're not reacting to her hints or because she feels guilty about sending you "sexy pics" knowing that she has a boyfriend.

I've said it time and time again on the forum. Women that put on the the air of being faithful to their boyfriends will manipulate the situation so she can say, "it just happened," and blame the guy. If you want something to happen, you'll have to make it happen. Just remember, if I'm right, she's showing you her character right now.

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Meaning I should continue being the same, flirting, etc. even tho she changed her behavior? Because right now I feel like being "fine, you wanna be like that, I'll be like that too". She used to message me more often than she does now.

Of course the goal is to meet her, she wanted to meet tomorrow, but I can't, so the next free day is sunday.

Yes. Be your best self, everyday, regardless of what woman you're talking to. Playful, fun, centered, focused on your career and passions.

You have to let go of the text thing. People get busy. People go through moods. Especially girls with bf's.

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Too much talk and no action will kill attraction. If she isn't contacting you as much...no big deal. Do your thing and when she contacts you act as if everything is the same.

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As a side note... Many guys have this idea that things are static. No offense but I read this stuff and it's always so boring.... Nothing is static and you should be doing different things in general. She sends sexy pics on Monday.. Doesn't mean she will send some more Wednesday then send some more Friday. Thats boring and you are expecting what happened Monday to carry weight the days and weeks after that. You shouldn't be expecting the same the next day and the next and if you are no wonder chicks get bored so much. She sends pics Monday. Sext her Wednesday. Maybe she's goofy on Thursday and yall goof around. Maybe Friday it's subtle flirting. My point is.. In general this "I only flirted back" is BORING and chick's will get tired of it. Do you really think that one style of communication ie she flirts you flirt back is not going to get old?

I'm not saying it is or should be the same. But my logic dictates it should develop forward, not stop altogether. We barely started flirting when she stopped. Eh well, maybe she really only sent them as a joke or started feeling bad because she has a boyfriend.

I would love if we did a 4-6 way GROUP SPAM Video Chat and debating whatever issues you guys would like.

Neo,
Jack,
Arch,
MySelf,
R.C.

And whoever else. We can keep the video Listed private for the forum only if you like. All this back and forth on the forums is one thing, but I think it would be dope if we could all look each other in the eyes and see whats what. Honestly, I just want to hear and see Arch live and in action. I would love to see if he actually believes some of the things that he says just reading his face. Body language is a huge teller.

Let me know if you guys are down.

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