Hey guys,

So there is a coworker that I am slowly developing some feelings. First I kept my distance for ~2 years (didn't want drama). She and I are in different depts but recently we are in a group for a collaboration project.

When we completed a huge project, all of our coworkers decided to go drinking, we all got tipsy and then I just grew some balls or something asked her if she wanted to get fresh air and started a pretty long conversation. When I started complimenting her, she literally started stroking her hair throughout the whole conversation.

Moving forward, I started asking her privately if she wants coffee once in a while. She always make time and tells me that after a meeting or so, she will go out for some coffee with me, sometimes it is for 10 minutes (cause we both need to go for another meeting) or 40 minutes of just talking.

Recently she felt down and told me some deep topics about her life and what she is going through, I said why not grab a couple of drinks, she declined since she is going for some business trip but she wants to drink with me wants she comes back.

Some notable things:
She invades my personal bubble (no touching but leaning her entire body when I show her something on my phone)
I smell some perfume from her recently
Rarely she did some make up in the past but has been putting on some make up once in a while

I am planning to take it to the next level and see where this goes. But any thoughts from anyone else on this? Also the company I work for has couples in the office so there isn't an issue there.

When you're not having sex and this happens, you're moving towards the friendzone.

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This. The risk is too high, and it’s odd to say you are developing feelings for someone over two years with barely any interaction

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