'Ello
I just recently tried to pick up a girl I've known for awhile on the internet. I cut to the chase and posted on her LJ:

Me: "How about you take me out on a date? No really seriously.
It could be like a blind date but with no confusion on whos going to pay for the night out, we can get it straightened out here, your paying for your part. If it goes horribly wrong, which it wont, it will at least be fun to joke about it with friends. Leave your number and I'll contact you when I'm free."

Her: Whyyyy nott. I think you should invite a friend and I'll bring Molly that way if it goes horribly ary, which it wont, we will have our friends; if you have anyone up for that. Either way 735-0793, if you do AIM its mrsjordncatalano
I'll try to be free when you contact me. + you should think of something cool to do:)

This wasn't really the response I was looking for, I probably got this because I didn't take any time on building rapport with her on the internet. It just seemed like a big waste of time flirting with her on LJ then jumping to the question.

Anyways, she wants to bring a friend. The friend happens to be someone who I really don't get along with. I dated the Molly girls best friend and Molly was a bitch to me. Also it could be a Molly that I screwed around with for a few weeks than ditched her like a bad habbit.

So what do you guys think? Is the friends thing just a cop-out? What would you do? What would be a good activity we could do? I really can't think of anything.

I'm having a hard time thinking if any of my friends would even be interested in going out with the molly girl as a double date. Also only one of my friends knows about the game so I would HAVE to count on him wanting to come, which he might not. Anyways it could be disasterouse if I bring a friend thats clueless to the game, instead of a good wingman.

UPDATE: After just posting this I asked myself how could this Molly girl be an advantage? I thought about how I could during the double date show more interest in this Molly girl, seem like I'm actually attracted to her, thus disarming my target.

Hot girl wants to meet with you and wants to bring a friend? That's called common sense. I would never meet someone I'd met on the internet without backup of some sort. When I met Shaft I brought Mocha along; I simply refuse to put myself into that sort of danger.

So your object this time around isn't to get MsJordan into bed. It's to run your very best game on her as though it were the beginning of a cold set. Make Ms. Molly like you, and you won't have to worry about the cock-block the _next time_ you want to take Jordan out. Because I seriously think that this is going to need a third meet before you go for close.

One of the biggest reasons I think 'net game is utter crap. It can take twice as long to do what you should have been doing in person to begin with... While you're waiting between meets with Jordan, make some cold approaches. You'll appreciate the difference.

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Yep, and you got the point there when u say how this "Molly" can be your advantage. I think its old saying between men, "To get chick that you want, hit on her girlfriend". Pay more attention to "Molly", but do it wisely. Try to ask her , (if u dont know her yet) , how is she what she does and get some talk with her, like you would know alreayd everything abotu "Jordan" and not interested. DO but DONT OVER DO. Since you are already more or less familiar, dont forget about her completly.

I d probably comment first on their looks, then if molly actually looks fine, i d say nice "shirt?" fits you well.. then talk about something with her, and maybe depending on subject would ask once or twice what "Jordan" thinks about it.

In the end, try too feel natural If it wont work, u ll see it pretty fast from their appearance i bet.

Happy Sarging

- Mr. White

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Alrighty, I'm feeling a lot better than the friend situation now.

I just got to go and re-read the venusian arts. I'm extremley rusty at working on your target friends. Most of my approaches are on single sets, most of my approaches are at book stores / stores. I'm not much of a club person so I better study hard the next few days.

What would you guys suggest in where to go for a date? I agree strongly that watching movies is something AFC do way too much for a first date. I was thinking maybe something at a park, or maybe thats too much. I'd like something to where SHE and HER FRIEND are not the subject of the night. I was thinking possibly thinking a concert comming up soon but it might be too loud to try my game out.

Oh you know I will. I just broke up with my girlfriend less than 48 hours ago and I've already made five approaches since then. Isn't as much as what I use to be able to do but I'm starting to use all my own material.

Well if i would be in your place, i probably would suggest to chicks to start little party at their place and then go to club.I ve done it the way that, i hang out with chicks at their place, bring some wine bottle with me or something nice, only thing that i never done this as a date. Cause my tactic is first getting alot of girlfriend around me, and then work from inside out. I am social and outgoing, and when i party with girls that ARE friends, their friends sees me as "good dog" , and thats not a bad thing cause if there are potential targets i start flirting so they wont get too much into "good buddy" mood. anyway this is going off topic. Too bad your not a club person.

Try to find place where they both arent all the time concentrated on you,
so the other one who you arent talking to would have some to spend a time one, talkative friend is good idea, but it should be a good friend and not cockblocker.

Also i know for sure that while you talking to other the other one is listening too, so play it wisely.



ps. this is how it works for me, it might or might not do you any favour. but i hope my posts give some ideas too. in the end you need to realize and recognize situation by yourself.

be independent and confident

say that you apreciate art, and respect people that actually can do something beautiful looking, cause your own hands are so big you cant do anything with them, only wood crafting (this is about me).
but you enjoy conversations and meeting new people..

-Mr. White

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Does Mystery Cover cold set? I've got like 10+ mystery videos and his book, I just briefly skimmed through them because I've been out of the game for a few months and couldnt find anything on cold approach. Anyone got any good links?