I'm dating this woman and the attraction has died a little due to some personal things that I've had to address.

She has also said some things that are inconsistent with other things and somewhat conflict...


I'm trying to get the attraction back between us(she use to call and or text me everyday(a bit excessive)
I've also given away my card hand and let her know why I like her....


I'm trying to gain more information on who she is exactly and how she conducts herself in relationships
is this an ok question to ask? or is there a better one?

You know, you have a lot of great qualities and you're beautiful but are you someone that can have a relationship?.....What I mean is you seem like the kind of woman that might change her mind on something in an instant

None of those questions are good moves. and the fact she's being
"inconsistent" (at least from your point of view) is telling.

It's okay to tell her you like her. But you move a woman into exclusivity by focusing on yourself. Seems counter-intuitive, right?

Nope.

1. Hit the gym.
2. Focus on career goals.
3. Find hobbies.
4. Improve bedroom skills.
5. Focus on being a fun, chill guy with her. Remain centered.

Guys will often text/talk so much with women early on that it kills the mystery and attraction. Don't always be available. You shouldn't be, naturally.

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