im seeing this girl, its our second time seeing each other alone. we watched a movie together we cuddled and talked a teased eachother. shes always "joking" around saying things like "when we do it" or "next time we hang out where doin it" then she laughs and i laugh... it seemed like it was going well

now i dont know if this was a true no interested move or if i jumped to soon idk but this is what happen

i was taking her home and we got to a stop sign where we parked for a little before i brought her home to talk. she "didnt want to go home yet" so i said so what did you have i mind. to which she replied lets make out. so i said "can do" unbuckled and went in for the kiss. she fucking drops her head and leaves me high and dry... then she starts laughing and saying "hahah i didn't know you where serious " aside from being a little embarrassed it wasn't a big deal we talked for 30 mins or so more, she put her head on my shoulder then we hugged and she left

but im confused because she did the whole LETS make out thing AGAIN! after the first time.. i didnt fall for it twice.. she also holds eye contact so long and smiles and bits her lip and flirts a shitload.. we have awesome kino

was she just playing hard to get and messing with me or what im at a lose..

She might just be toying with you, but I kinda doubt it.

From what you're saying, I think she digs you. You've developed comfort with her, so now it's time to step it up with the seduction. When you jumped for her "let's make out" line, I felt that was a bit AFC. She baited you, and you fell for it (as you know by now).

Wait for the right moment - it'll feel a little tense/awkward - and pull the trigger. You need to control the moment. Don't force yourself on her, but take the kiss from her.

Well, you could read The Game or maybe the Venusian Arts Handbook.

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Yeah good call Roads.
She's not showing you much respect, you need to take the lead and not fall for her tests. The time to 'make out' was on the sofa. She was probably wondering why you did'nt turn it up and make a move. Remember you decide weather she gets to kiss you or not, tease her, build the tension up before hand, be playful, show that her games dont bother you and just be confident.

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