i was at the launch of a bar last night, which was really good, lots of people good music, free drinks etc.

i went on my own because i knew some people that would be there, i met lots of people, opened this particular 3 set (2 girls, 1 guy) made friends with the guy, negged the target and talked to the obstacle for a while as we had similar jobs, turned out they all lived together.
i ended up talking to the target, she works in a club i will be going to tomorrow, so i'll see her.

the problem i have is that i didnt get much chance to get any rapport with this girl as i had to leave, tried to get them to bounce but they didnt.
so when i see her tomorrow (at work) i want to make a good impression.

any ideas?

the only idea i had was this: i was negging her about being deaf because she kept asking me to repeat things, when i found out she worked in this club i said i'd have to write my order down so she didnt misshear it.
so i was just going to do that. maybe just a drink, or maybe write something like... "hi deaf girl, I'll have a.... whatever" thats just off the top of my head. any ideas would be appreciated.

on a different note. this week it became clear to me that pretty much all my approach anxiety has disappeared! woo

j

come on! dont let me down now guys...

sounds like a good idea, u neg and its a reference to something you have in common...only problem i can see is that she will be working and you wont get a chance to talk to her.