sorry, playa. uncappin' for the visually impaired or for the disabled pua. Equal opportunity PUA. To get back in the topic, I am speaking from memory because its been a while since I PU at a mall food court or at a mall fast food joint. You raise good points. I will even take it a step further because I come from the community of PUAs that specializes in MALLology, mackin at malls. Well, usually, you need to set a timeline before you go into PUA mode at your goal. I mean, it seemed like you been checkin out the HB for a while but just haven't made your move. I am guessing your a frequent customer, so I would give yourself extra time. When you said, "order", I am certain its a service business in the mall. It may seem difficult but its all PUA mathmatical calculation. You calculate and prioritize your game plan, prepare for the risks, and use the resources near you to seal the deal. OK, back to the situation....If you are impatient PUA then I would vitalize the potential of her co-workers. If you know somebody at her work....Let that person wing for you. If you don't recognize a friend,just use them to make your mack approach last as long until you can seal the deal. Sometimes you have to PUA mode on two individuals at the same time to get to that one HB. Visual clues about her personality is usually a challenge for fast food HB employees, but seeing one clue is all you need. If you know how to stretch a conversation over her butterfly tattoo and how you think its the best in the world, go for it. Making it the least obvious in pick up is the best because maybe they been tried being macked on the whole day. Sometimes Mall employees just need someone to talk to about simple stuff. Let me know if you got the number.
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GREG-DA-LinguisticsMajor :: Please, drop this upper cased style of writing. It hurt eyes when you read it. Thank you.
How would you do that if she was standing/sitting/dancing?
How would you do that if she was at the table/at the door/in the bathroom?
How would you do that if she was shopping/working/sleeping/peing/whatever?
Different?
I have almost the same type of approach all the time.
I use direct method, because I'm congruent with it.
So, in this case, I can use 'I like you' type of opener in any kind of situation.
You can wait your turn to order and then 'ILY' opener, or say 'excuse me' to someone who is already ordering something like a gentle person and ILY to this girl.
I admit that I have almost no idea about indirect, so I'm not telling you how to do it that way
regards,
lite