Ok so I have this super good looking girl in my college class....I had talked to her in school and kinda would flirt but did not ask her out. Last night I see her at the bar so I moved in and gamed her....I was not sure If she was into me because she was acting weird! but at the end of the night she came to me and wanted me to talk her home.

So I walk her home and she tells me to come in....I come in and she has two dudes ther haha through me right off! well I hang out with her and the two dudes for like 2 hours! and then Im thinking ok I want to leave....then she tells me to go to her room.

We start talking in her room but she is acting so weird! shes not giving me IOI's....she keeps giving me funny looks and starts cleaning her room? she lets her dog in the room???? haha So I then I just start chirping her and I tell her that I think she has a crush on me....she then tells me she might and that she thnks Im cute.

At this point I was going to move in for a kiss but I was so thrown off! and it was 7 in the morning haha I told her I was going to go....well today she has been texting me but I can not read this girl at all!!!! I mean she is weird! very stuck up! but I kinda like it.

What do I do with this girl?

Man the fuck up?

She gave you pretty much clear consent for take-off.

Be dominant and kino, escalate.

Is this some kind of joke of a story??
I hope so because that was beyond failure on your part

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Women are trained to be coy, and never blatantly say what they want.

If I say to a boy "Let's go have sex now" or "I want you to fuck me" it doesn't matter HOW long I've known him. I will look like a slut in the eyes of society.

It's bunk. I hate it, but it's true.

Women are taught by society that if we so much as feel the desire for sex, we are sluts and should hide our faces in shame. I'm not kidding.

That girl wants you. The guys may be her roommates. Or maybe she wanted a gang bang. Either way, she wanted you and you weren't man enough to pull the trigger.

You need to understand that female desires are beyond repressed. She was trying to show you her desire and you misinterpreted it.

THe best thing in this situation is my favorite thing in the whole world: Communication. Open, honest, no-holds-barred communication.

Ask her what's up. Let her know you saw the signs, but you weren't sure if she was serious or not. You didn't want to push her, so you left. Then get her to open up to you.

That's the best I can recommend.

Cinnamon

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No man I have closed alot of women! this girl was weird! I was in her room thinking ok this will be easy when she lets her dog in, and starts cleaning her room! so I told her to stop and come hang out....she wouldnt.

Then she starts calling me a youngin (Im 21 shes 25)....Iduno man I have never faced a girl like her! she is good!

She is the ultimate test! she is hot, stuck up!, square, and she likes to rub the fact that Im 4 years younger in my face lol yet she still texts me so I know I can pull this off

Cinnamon was right, but missed one key thing. Something Ive noticed isnt in these forums (i will try to fix that in time) is personality roles. They have been touched on but not really fully explained

She's acting dominate, but is generally a submissive type person. Because of her looks, she often finds that she needs to be the one that engages, that pursues, but she needs to still be a "lady". How is this apparent? Cause she is playing coy (as cin said).

She is nervous, not sure of herself, and, in the end, is let down by you. She acted dominate towards you, and you were (in her eyes) supposed take control. How do you do this? Simple, seemingly meaningless tasks. Tell her to pass the remote (domain ownership, as in the room. you control the entertainment, the flow, the energy, and the focus). Tell her to give you more pillows then her (if there are 3, you need 2, 4, you need 3). This allows her to want more, and you are her source.

She more then likely was thrown off cause she thinks (because men reinforce it) that she is hot and everyone wants to simply fuck her. She wanted you, but you werent drooling over her. Thats why she started doing wierd things like cleaning or letting the dog in. Those actions arent typical even for people who have company over that they dont like. What it does show is higher energy, lack of confidence, and a submissive state of mind (shes afraid to confront you with what she wants). Take that energy, and work her out. She was primed, you just didnt ignite the fuse. Thus, no explosions.

My advice: find out when she is free. Tell her you are going to such and such place (something where you have plenty of face to face, or, intellectually intimate (not physically intimate) like taking pictures at a park, hike, or whatever you know she likes.) Dont ever ask her what she wants to do, ask her out, ask her for anything. Worst case: she denies it and shit tests you. Best case, she starts to succumb to your dominance and if you play it right you have what ever you want from her at any time.

One thing that is extremely important, never just TELL her to do something. Tell her in the form of a request. It should always be formed in HER giving YOU something. HER coming to YOU (even if you are picking her up, "OK, cool. We should go to the park and test out my new camera. Ill pick you up at 4?") Dont do it in a rude way. Use your linguistic skills and NLP (Visual, Kinestetic, and Audio words, and make sure you use her language) to get it.

In short, she was Dominant to you, but is at heart submissive. Now, she did all the work to get you IN HER ROOM, you need to seal the deal.

I see ok....next time I hang out with her I want to kiss her and as long as she is on the same level.

I will give what your saying a try....I do try to be the leader naturaly I like to feel like the leader when I am with a women but with her I think I do need to step it up.

My only problem is that she is in all of my classes in college so I dont want to pull somthing off and then make it weird for the rest of the year you know? But this weekend I think Im going to tell her to come out with my friends and I....and then I will take her away to another place.

How should a guy go about kissing a powerful women like this? She is an intimdating women! and she loves to shit test like crazy! I need to get her guard down and get her to relax around me.

use her shit tests against her. Call her bluff.

most of all, dont let her make you believe she is powerful. As Rye Lee has said, no chick is a 10, and no chick is ever better then you. Inherently, everyone has a weakness. What is hers? focus on that (in your head) and bring her to a lower level then you so she is on of your followers. She maybe intimidatingly beautiful, but, is she dumb? a klutz? gullible? clueless? find it and mine it for every diamond. most of all, stop putting her in an unattainable position. Stop chasing Amy. Make her chase you.

Right on good advice.

She likes to bring up the age thing alot....she likes me it clear in fact she told me im good looking ect....but then she will say your so young ect ect....(im 21 shes 25). I just laugh it off and tell her shes is a cougar and she shouldnt be seducing younger men.

What is a better way to deal with this shit test?

Ever play poker? Its a game of bluffs and bulls. Either you own the hand, or you act like you own the hand. During the game, you learn to read the bluffs and the bulls. When you suspect someone of bluffing (shit test), call them on it. List some examples of shit test though, cause each one obviously has a different response.

The age thing though: Id go with,
"Just means your going to go gray before I do" or something like that. I personally love
"Just means your nips will be in your morning SPAM before my junk gets rug burn walking to the sofa." But you have to be around a certain kinda chick for that.

DHV by saying you were in a relationship with some chick for 3 or more years. Make sure you dont get caught up in lies though. I can do this cause I have had one for 5.5 years, and with that most chicks automatically know there is a *chance* at having something real, but if you pull off the cocky funny thing they also know they are going to have to work for it or settle for a good night. Its a thin line, so if c/f isnt her thing, work her friends into it if they are around.