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Well tomorrow is Wednesday, and according to Tom Leykis (radio talk-show host here in LA 97.1 FM) he says never set a date after Wednesday and DEFINITLY don't answer the phone to any chick during the weekend. Make them think you're busy.
Call her tomorrow (Wednesday) and say "we should hang out this weekend, are you free Friday or is Saturday better?" This way you're not asking IF she can hang out with you, you're asking WHICH day is better (in sales its called the alternate of choice close). Try to avoid asking a "yes" or a "No" question like "are you free Friday." When she picks a day (lets say Friday) say "great I'll call you Friday afternoon.
When Friday rolls around this is how it should go...
You: Hey what time are you eating dinner tonight?
Her: Um, probably around 7pm
You: Great! Lets meet up for drinks around 9pm at xyz bar/club
Her: Sounds great!
This way you've totally skipped out on having to buy her dinner and listening to her blab on and on about who knows what. Its lighter on your pocketbook and you still get the chance to close after she's loosened up with a few drinks.
That's acting like you're free on both friday and saturday night which DLV