Hey fogg! Im new to this aswell. But i have read a guide about proper eye contact. This guide is for when you start looking at a girl. But i think its the same thing when she starts looking. the guide is as followed:
The Rules:
This is for sets that you haven’t approached yet
1.You start looking into her eyes at a distance of 10 meters. If you start looking at her before you reach that distance she might consider you a staring AFC, which is not good for your calibration.
2.Look at that what you like. There is absolutely nothing wrong with looking at a person you find attractive. You don’t have to excuse yourself for doing so. Just look, and even if she asks why you are looking at her, a simple “I do find you attractive” is enough. It takes balls to say that, but it really is that way. She will actually like you even more for looking at her when you do not need an excuse for looking at her.
3.Just look into one eye. This way you eliminate any fidgety movements with your eyes which would make you look nervous. You want to have a steady, calm and relaxed EC. Stop looking at her boobs or butt. Just concentrate on the eye. It doesn’t matter which eye, but you should never change during one EC. You might change if she looks away, but I wouldn’t do that either. It makes you look nervous. Some people say that the left eye is connected with the emotional side of her body, whether you believe it or not you might want to do that. Better safe than sorry. Don’t mess around with AFC techniques like looking at the point between her eyes and crap like that. Just look right into one eye. You are the man, leader of the tribe. Her ass is your property and you are allowed to look at her.
4.Do not – whatever happens – look away. Just stay there. If people walk between the two of you or if you walk and things break your EC, keep on looking as if you still could see her. Most of the times she will look away in the beginning but you look as long as it takes for her to look away.
5.Stick with your first choice. No switching. Not even if she is fucking ugly and next to her is a HB10. You decide once and stick with your choice until your choice looks away. Only if she looks away first you are allowed to change the person.
6.You might want to approach her when she walks past you. There is a point about one or one and a half meters in front of you. If a girl is behind this point she is more likely to continue walking then to stop and talk to you. So you do have to approach her before she reaches that point. If you, forever what reasons don’t approach her you may turn your head 20°s, which is not much. But trust me 20° are enough. Look up rule 8 concerning such situations.
7.If she looks away and you consider her as attractive you just leave your eyes where they are. When you start with this technique only a few will look again. Later it’s about 80% of them. After the second look it is time to approach, after that her attraction decreases every second.
8.Whatever you do, she does it first. With the exception of the escalation – which would be an approach. If you do not approach her then the rule of energy comes into action. The rule of energy is that you use less energy than she does, for whatever you do. You blink less, move your hands less and slower, etc. If she walks past you stick with a maximum head turning of 20°s. If she turns her head more than that you might turn it as well. If she opens your body towards you, you might go for that as well. And if that is the case you really should consider to approach her as she is definitely into you.
9.Have a self confident BL and look like a HSE guy. Chest to the front, shoulders leaning slightly backwards, and just relax. Let go of every AA and just look and feel comfortable with that. You are not needy as your EC is not sexual. Just have an EC that tells her that you might be interested in her personality. This is important only for beginners. In the mastery you will definitely look sexual sometimes.
10.Do not the f*ck look away! JUST DON’T! Consider it a game. You look away - you loose. You wait for her to look away you win and get the girl – if you approach her at some point. If you look away first, you may never ever look again. The game is lost. If you decide to look again the only outcome would be that you look away again before she does. You lowered your Value in looking away first. So keep yourself a small amount of dignity and do not look again. You might want to punish yourself if you look away before she does. Tell yourself what a looser you are. It was just a few seconds of looking at something and you fucked up. Next time you will not – trust me.
I think its good that you told her that she should have come to you earlier. You have the right to be a bit cocky and throw her a neg when she is staring at you like that
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