it was actually a tactic I use to get the moderators to answer questions instead of me. they usually be like: the forum would like to apologize for mrfickle's lack of congeniality what he was trying to articulate but couldn't was the fact that ___ blah blah blha you get the picture. lol thanks for the reputation points you've killed me with kindness I guess
but basically this is simply flirting. not negs, negs have nothing to do with this negs are basically something you use to make a girl think your not hitting on her. You've got this girls number, and she reponded to your texts so your free to hit on her.
I hope to god you havn't responded to that message please tell me you havn't.
anyways girls favorite thing to text me is "hey loser" and that's fine I have no hard feelings about that I understand it was meant to be playful and fun and even an indicator of interest. So instead of being offencive by replying with something like "hey *fill in insult here* I simply respond with
"you misspelled attractive young man

"
thus bringing them to laughter and they usually respond with something else funny blah blah blah its simply banter my friend.
dont anchor bad insulting things to your name on her phone. if a girl talks to me she knows that it will be fun and playful or hot and arousing from the START. no insults, no I hate you kindergarden shit. non of that.
the idea's behind gaming and pua arnt to be assholes even though i do admit it can be very very tempting sometimes to just blow off a preplanned date at the last minute. the idea is to be nice but give her space to miss you (a concept most assholes understand that nice guys dont)
My best
-Mrfickle