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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 12:02 am 
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Right so while i realise a PUA should not need to go to such an event my housemate has literally begged me to accompany her to an event... So now I am thinking I should take full advantage of the situation...

Any advice or things I should specifically do or not do... any good lines?


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 12:19 am 
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Lines are totally unnecessary in a situation like this. You don't need to open the girl and she isn't in a group. My advice is to stay away from the normal boring questions. I went to a speed dating thing before I got into this PUA stuff, and thats all anyone ever talks about. If you stand out and be different and cocky/funny then you will have a great chance at getting the girls interest. At the one I was at, we had the speed dating thing, and then the group hung out at the bar all night. So if there is a girl that particularly sparks your interest you can talk her up again and run your usual game on her minus the opener.

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:00 am 
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Why is speed dating bad for PUA? I would think it would do a lot of good for those that are learning it actually.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 11:22 am 
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Ask them questions they wont have heard from every other guy and make statements to start conversations.

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i'm in the same situation. let us know how it goes. i'll do the same

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 7:16 pm 
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So what sort of questions should I be asking bearing in mind you only have 3 minutes....

By going into DHV routines etc would take up all the time..

Any good suggestions?


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 6:42 am 
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I would focus on doing kino big time. Besides that I would generally flirt and make chit chat. I won't ask any real questions as you don't have time for them. Think of this as a job interview where what you say almost does not matter, but how you present and act/behaves will matter more. Because in those 3 minutes you are not going to have time to really do anything so physical looks and physical presentation matter a lot and will more than likely determine if there is a match or not.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2008 8:40 pm 
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I went on a speed dating event once in my AFC days. If I knew then what I know now...
When I did have some success I think 1) I was DHV in some ways, e.g. sporty chicks digged that I played football a lot etc. and 2) Being different, e.g. instead of the usual "so what do you do?" I was like "so [insert name], tell me about yourself" (like a job interviewer might say) or "who do you think's more annoying [some lame tv presenter] or [another lame tv presenter]?"
As it happens, I met a guy on one once (not like it sounds!) who I since became friends with and when we're in bars and stuff I've seen he's actually a natural.


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