Where we live there are so many sexy asain girls that go to school here. They are so shy and only hang out with their other asain friends and family.
What is the best way to deal with the language barrier and make them feel comfortable so they are not so shy.

Help us out here

next time you speak to them and you feel like you're having problems with

the language barrier, ask them about where they learnt to speak english. i.e.

did u learn at high school or did you go to one of those special TESL schools.

Ask them how confident they are with speaking english. Then it's your time

to shine, tell them you would be happy to help if they are having problems.

Get their phone numbers and say something like, practice makes perfect

when learning a new language. And take it from there.

Asian girls are way horny for non asian guys, it'll be easy!

Thats all a bunch of fluff. We need openers

LOL. You yellow-fever boys crack me up!

Honestly, I would think language barrier would be a deal breaker for me; it's time consuming and frustrating even to work around/with it for me to even bother.

Really, think about non-asian girls; would you really bother with a hot girl that only spoke moon-language with tidbits of english? I'd say just look for the asian girl that speaks english.

As to that "Asian girls are way horny for non asian guys, it'll be easy!"...that's a fucked generalization you got there, bro.

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Well, this can apply for anyone dealing with girls that don't speak English as their mother tongue (especially for us guys living in a new country), so I don't think it's completely avoidable. And quite frankly, there's so many super-hot girls that don't speak fluent English that I think it'd be crazy to disqualify them for that, no?

I like Nutriman's approach of using OUR expertise in English as an advantage (this is an obvious attraction because foreign girls WANT to improve their English). However, my only concern - and I say this because I'm an expat in Germany wondering how far I can run with it - is that it might be perceived as more of a friend thing than a getting-laid thing. I'm working a few angles with it now, and what I'm trying to do is make sure that English skills are not over-emphasized (ie. the main reason they are hanging out with me). Rather, you want to make it seem to the girl that "I'm hanging out with this really cool cat who happens to speak perfect English, which I'd really like to practice while I'm licking his balls." Anyhow, I don't know what the right balance is yet, but I'll keep you updated if it works....

Openers boys. We need angles to open with. I think i could run tight game on them once i get them interested in what i have to say but they roll in packs and just seem really unapproachable. We need opening material

Ah, seen. Well, from my experience, Asian cliques tend to be pretty tight-looped (no racism intended, just observation). However, the key is to find the element that gives them a reason/need to go outside of their loop, whether it's academic, social, or religious (you wouldn't be the first dude to become Buddhist for a week...). English skills are the obvious one, but with this one Vietnamese girl I dated way back when, it happened that we were both studying IT, and I happened to be the shit when it came to IT. So I was able to give subtle hints to her that I - the friggin Yoda of our course - was open to sharing his knowledge with her. In just a few days, she was bringing me homemade Vietnamese food to class, and not long after that, she was showing me the different ways I could break in my futon The key is that "traditionally Asian girls" are like any other socially conservative types - you just need to work a little harder to justify why they should leave their social circle...

What makes you think openers for asian women would be any different from the ones used for non-asian women? Game is Game. If you can't get around the language barrier, then you just can't; but you shouldn't need race specific openers. What are you expecting? Openers about rice or rig shaws or something? Just use any opener!

asians women = turn on

i go out where ther are heaps of tourists generally. i open the asians the same. once u find out that there is a language barrier just simplify your words, do more kino and kino games and the such. its no different to a person who speaks fluent english.

plus u can make up words and see if they call you out on it

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i just gave u openers, try hello how are you? i'm (blah)

or if u see them in the street, ask them have you tried mr wong's asian grocery (could be any grocery), i'm thinking about buying some stuff there and needed to know if the produce is any good. Or you could talk about an asian restaurant or someshit, use the surroundings as something to prompt you into conversation

Also just coz it's a fucked generalisation doesn't mean it's not true

Here's my two cents being an Asian guy.

Asian girls are generally more difficult to hit on because of conservative upbringing. I personally don't see any special appeal in Asian girls, because to me, girls are girls. My little brother in my pants don't discriminate on racial grounds, and neither do I.

I spent some times overseas in the past and I agree with rigoberto's observation that Asian cliques tend to be very self-contained. However, I reckon this is true wherever you go, you would find it easier to bond with people of your own culture.

However, Asian girls who grew up in a western culture are as good as being white girls and should be treated as such. Asian girls growing up in Asian cultures have more sensitive alarm bells, and would take more patience to disarm.

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''i just gave u openers, try hello how are you? i'm (blah) ''
WOW Nutriman, you must be fucking asain girls everynight. That just translates to "Hey, how about some dick"....
We need advice from someone who has experience opening up random asian girls and getting them talking. You cant just go up and do an opinion opener on somebody who speaks poor english. They wont have a clue what your talking about and that makes things really awkward. We need clever ways to start a conversation. We already thought of hey hows it going. A long time ago. Theres nothing wrong with that, but thats the lowest common denominator of openers. We were hoping for a smart, well thought out way to start a conversation and get an asian, ESL girl talking. I hope you guys can help us out.

Pickup is an art, not a list of openers or pickup lines. When you understand that you will be able to come up with your own openers and you won't rely on others to write them for you.

yo sweet cool, i really liked the smart ass way u replied, honestly i do and i'm not trying to be a smart ass myself I just like good wit. but when u think about it, if you try to make the opener complicated to a bunch of girls who are trying to learn a language that they think is complicated based on the fact it's not their native tongue, using hey how's it going? or hey how are you? is probably the best opener and the simplest.
If you try and start a conversation with anybody with a complicated opener if they speak english or not, they're gonna get more confused than they already are. If you start something complicated you're gonna be standing there explaining the complications.
Keep it simple, especially with anyone who's native language is not your own.

don't forget to keep it simple.

Ok so nobody has anything then. Ive known about just maning up, playin it cool and using inner game since I was 14. Its common sense. I wouldnt be on a forum asking this shit if I thought everyone was just going to tell me to man up. You did make some good points in your earlier posts though Nutriman which I do appreciate, they just werent really what I had in mind. Kalel, It really seems like you think your the shit and you dont want to help you just want to drink hateraide. Your posts were absolutley useless. Even the asian guy said working game on asian girls is different.