| So if it's not working, then try something else. Negs are really an oversimplified way of trying to tease a girl and really aren't as effective as people would have you think. Teasing is MUCH more effective. I'm not going to go into length here about the difference, cause I don't have that kind of time at the moment, but if you look around the forum, you can find some good info on the difference, I've written at length about it several times already myself.
Some girls don't ever respond well to teasing, that's just not something that they go for. A lot of guys I know, don't like it when a girl teases them, yet if a girl doesn't tease me, then I'm not attracted to her. It takes all kinds and there's a lot of them out there, so learn to calibrate based upon the person, not just stick to a rigid structure and beliefs about what will and won't work. I can guarantee you that what works in Calgary doesn't work very well in NYC from personal experience and the experience of several other people I've discussed this with; the same goes for what works on one girl and what works on another, it varies, so you have to learn to figure out what will work and what won't and then act accordingly.
It's not a problem that she doesn't react the way you want, you just need to learn how to approach it differently. It's not her, it's you. _________________ "The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch
~ Rye
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