Need some advice. *warning* It's gonna be long

So i just woke up from a nap after a day 2 about 4 hours ago. I don't know whether it went good (potential hook ups in the future) or bad (ljbf potential) It all started at 11 when she texted me saying she just woke up and was about to come over to my house in an hour. When she called at 12, i was sleeping and she asked if I just woke up, I told her "you took so long that I was taking a nap." She laughed and called me retarded. She finally gets to my house about 1.

I was on the phone with my boss because she just called but came outside to say hi to her and we hugged. Went to my car and we went to lunch. During the car ride we were just talking and getting comfortable with light teasing and joking. We got to the place and parked kinda far due to no parking. So I told her to give me a piggy back ride since it was so far. I put my arms over her and we tried to but was afraid of falling so jumped off. Right before we got to the restraunt I told her they give discounts here if they think you're a couple, so i looped our arms. She said "wait, you cant be holding mine" and grabbed onto my arm. Had a good lunch with decent convos. She kept txting someone or doin something, so I texted her with "You're rude". Which made her stop. She seemed very girly and cute as opposed to when we're hanging out with mutual friends. I played a variation of the game where she had to tell me 3 truths and 1 lie. She wasnt much of a sport and gave me an obvious one and i negged her on being so creative.

We bounced to Wal-Mart because I needed to get something there. She asked me why walmart and I said, "you know why (girls name), because they have best friends here, lets find a best friend for you and i grabbed her arm, which she laughed but pulled away lightly. there we walked around made some jokes and I used my lanyard to hit her and whip her to initiate poking wars.

After walmart, we went to get ice cream at Rite-Aid (Bomb ass ice cream there) and she paid because I got the lunch. She asked to try my ice cream and was doing a scooping motion with her spoon, but I scooped a little bit with my spoon and fed it to her. i made a lightly negged her saying how she made it taste bad now. More whipping and poking.

We bounced over to my friends house because he has a nice chill ass backyard with koi's and a swinging chair. There we got into a poking/tickling WWIII kind of match. Then some mutual friends come along and we kind of turned everything down. There was still subtle tickling and poking going on but not as much.

We head over to a mall and things changed from there, we werent alone anymore and things kinda changed, her attitude, my attentiveness to her etc etc. Then she gets a phone call, but this time not from her mom or a mutual friend because the tone of her voice changes. she walks away and comes back a minute later. We decide its time to leave the mall. When we're almost out, she says, "Ok, you can ride with (Mutual friend), I have to go pick up someone."

wtf...I don't know who this someone is, but the mutual friend had a pretty good feeling it was a guy shes been talking to. she never talks to me about this guy, so as far as im concerned he doesnt even exists, yet he does. the mutual friend butts in and says "yeah danny91664, did you know (girls name) has a boyfriend?" kinda in a joking way... to which, i didnt respond (AFC?) I needed to get something from her car so i went to get it and she says, "Yeah i gotta go but I'll call you guys right after." to which i said, Alright, bye. and didnt even go to hug or say bye to her, just a casual ok see ya later type of deal. Now im kinda annoyed at what she did and what happen. I thought things were goin pretty well, except I could have kino escalated more and did more intimate touching then just tickling. But as you can tell, she hasnt called back yet, so I don't even know where to go from here.

Should I just freeze her out for ditching me, or call/txt her up tonight and ignore what happen at the end of the "date"

Hi Danny,

I Read your post, and it seems to me like you needed to take a little more control - to show her that you're alpha.

You sound like a really interesting and fun guy, she obviously enjoys this about you. I think if you're with a girl on a 'date' or day 2 you must escalate kino to an intimate level. This way she knows what you want, and you know whether she wants the same.

I think your mutual friend may have been teasing you a bit . - I could be wrong though. Either way you need to find out if she's interested. Do a search for 'Compliance Tests' to check how to do this.

I'd suggest keeping it cocky funny, when contacting her again. Here are some great ones: list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html

Other than that, always remember that there are almost 7 Billion people in the world right now. The supply of intelligent, beautiful, sexy, passionate girls is HUGE. If worse comes to worse you'll just have to go out and get yourself another one.

Peace, Buddy

LoveJunkie

Hey man I read your post, and dosent sound like you goT one-itis and just so you don't develop it, remmember how many women are out there and as soon you get trouble and flakiness from a girl you can easily find another. Try to aim to deal with multiple women at a time that way you always have an option.