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To make a long story short i've been dating this girl for a few weeks when out of nowhere she starts ducking my calls. Today we started texting and I suggested a date however she hit me back with this text:
"Haha maybe. I have to be honest with you, though. Im not sure what your expectations are, but im sort of starting to see someone else and I don't know that I see things going anywhere with us. You're a great guy and I've had a lot of fun spending time with you. I'd love to be friends. To be fair though, I dont want to lead you on by saying that i'm interested in pursing something when that's not the case.
That's pretty clear that she is not interested in pursing a relationship. I at no point in time hinted that I wanted one. She is going to call @ 10am eastern standard time today. What should I say? I am interested in going out with her and having casual sex and seeing where it goes. Is this a salvageable situation? Any advice would be appreciated.
Do not pick up.
You will not be emotionally prepared for what she is going to say. I repeat. Do not pick up.
If you want any shot at this. Let it ring and then text her an hour later and say "I thought about it. I think its best we split. Nice knowing ya (her name)"
And leave it at that.
Give it a couple weeks and there is a strong change she'll come back. But if you pick up that phone and validate her emotions by asking for reasons why she wants it to be over, or by defending the fact that " you didn't want anything serious anyway" this will be done.
And if you truly didn't want anything serious with the girl in NO WAY you wouldn't even make this post. You obviously saw her as a potential.
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