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 Post subject: Need Help Asap!!!
PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2015 4:09 am 
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To make a long story short i've been dating this girl for a few weeks when out of nowhere she starts ducking my calls. Today we started texting and I suggested a date however she hit me back with this text:

"Haha maybe. I have to be honest with you, though. Im not sure what your expectations are, but im sort of starting to see someone else and I don't know that I see things going anywhere with us. You're a great guy and I've had a lot of fun spending time with you. I'd love to be friends. To be fair though, I dont want to lead you on by saying that i'm interested in pursing something when that's not the case.

That's pretty clear that she is not interested in pursing a relationship. I at no point in time hinted that I wanted one. She is going to call @ 10am eastern standard time today. What should I say? I am interested in going out with her and having casual sex and seeing where it goes. Is this a salvageable situation? Any advice would be appreciated.


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 Post subject: Re: Need Help Asap!!!
PostPosted: Mon Apr 13, 2015 5:36 am 
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Get her to come out with you somewhere near your place. Say as little as you possibly can over the phone. The phone should be used solely as a method of setting up future dates.
If your game is tight enough, you should be able to get her back to your place and fuck her. Then she will reverse rationalize and tell herself "wow, he must be amazing, because I had sex with him." From there, you can take it wherever you want.
However, she may actually be trying to save you time and effort. If you get the sense after speaking to her that the situation really is unsalvageable, and that you won't be able to seduce her, then don't waste your time. Go find another girl, there's only 3.5 billion more out there.

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 Post subject: Re: Need Help Asap!!!
PostPosted: Tue Apr 14, 2015 12:24 am 
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To make a long story short i've been dating this girl for a few weeks when out of nowhere she starts ducking my calls. Today we started texting and I suggested a date however she hit me back with this text:

"Haha maybe. I have to be honest with you, though. Im not sure what your expectations are, but im sort of starting to see someone else and I don't know that I see things going anywhere with us. You're a great guy and I've had a lot of fun spending time with you. I'd love to be friends. To be fair though, I dont want to lead you on by saying that i'm interested in pursing something when that's not the case.

That's pretty clear that she is not interested in pursing a relationship. I at no point in time hinted that I wanted one. She is going to call @ 10am eastern standard time today. What should I say? I am interested in going out with her and having casual sex and seeing where it goes. Is this a salvageable situation? Any advice would be appreciated.
Females play the friend card to put up their entitlement and ego. Typically, suggest that you were only interested in casual sex and unless she is interested or willing to put you into contact with girls who are single as a friend should, there is nowhere to go from this. If by salvageable, you mean a way to rebound, it would be to take a more direct sexual approach from the start like rsd julien or jeffy. The saying goes, you pretty much drop the hammer and get laid or hose her down and kick her out so they suggest.


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 Post subject: Re: Need Help Asap!!!
PostPosted: Tue Apr 14, 2015 1:30 am 
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Moved to general questions.

Questions do not go into the lounge :)

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 Post subject: Re: Need Help Asap!!!
PostPosted: Tue Apr 14, 2015 6:35 pm 
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To make a long story short i've been dating this girl for a few weeks when out of nowhere she starts ducking my calls. Today we started texting and I suggested a date however she hit me back with this text:

"Haha maybe. I have to be honest with you, though. Im not sure what your expectations are, but im sort of starting to see someone else and I don't know that I see things going anywhere with us. You're a great guy and I've had a lot of fun spending time with you. I'd love to be friends. To be fair though, I dont want to lead you on by saying that i'm interested in pursing something when that's not the case.

That's pretty clear that she is not interested in pursing a relationship. I at no point in time hinted that I wanted one. She is going to call @ 10am eastern standard time today. What should I say? I am interested in going out with her and having casual sex and seeing where it goes. Is this a salvageable situation? Any advice would be appreciated.
Do not pick up.

You will not be emotionally prepared for what she is going to say. I repeat. Do not pick up.

If you want any shot at this. Let it ring and then text her an hour later and say "I thought about it. I think its best we split. Nice knowing ya (her name)"

And leave it at that.

Give it a couple weeks and there is a strong change she'll come back. But if you pick up that phone and validate her emotions by asking for reasons why she wants it to be over, or by defending the fact that " you didn't want anything serious anyway" this will be done.

And if you truly didn't want anything serious with the girl in NO WAY you wouldn't even make this post. You obviously saw her as a potential.

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