are there any girls that appreciate awkwardness?



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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 6:21 am 
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I am the most awkward guy in the world. It's like I am the king of awkwardness. I mean I can create an awkward situation in a second, it's so fucking easy for me.

Are there any women that appreciate awkwardness? I personally think it's a sign of intelligence, if you look around, the more intelligent people are more awkward.
how do I stop being awkward?

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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 6:44 am 
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In short, no. A guy friend put this into words beautifully for me: when you behave in an awkward manner in front of others (shifting eyes, fumbling over words, hesitancy) - EVEN your friends - they start to feel awkward and uncomfortable, too. So for the sake of your company, stop it! That snapped me out of it quickly. When one is behaving that way, generally a guy is in his head and more concerned with how he HIMSELF is feeling than what his COMPANY is feeling. And that's a bit selfish, don't you think?

That said, if you do make a blunder; forgive, forget, and move on - it's part of getting better. If a girl calls you out on it, generally you can take that as either a playful tease or a shit test or both. Don't let it bother you.

So how do you become less awkward? Well it depends on what exactly it is that you're doing or not doing that you call "awkward," but you absolutely CAN get better at becoming more comfortable and making other people more comfortable in your presence. The great thing is that, since you can bring a situation from normal to awkward in 1.0 seconds, then you can generally bring it back from awkward to awesome in the same amount of time. Look up pattern interrupts. They're great for changing the subject quickly.

By the way, logical intelligence and social/emotional intelligence are two completely different animals and NOT mutually exclusive.

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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2014 12:10 pm 
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Awkward is a sign of intelligence? What?

Listen, friend. Intelligence is not only how well you can memorize things and how well you do maths. Handling emotions and social situations are just as important part of intellect than any other things. Now the good thing about it, is that you can improve on these parts the very same way as the others. How do you improve your maths skills? You practise. You improve your social skills the same way. You can read books about it, and then practise. Good Luck!

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when i was younger, i used to think i was capable of being perfect, that i was at least (somewhat) powerful. like i would even do jelq exercises to make my dick bigger, then blood trickled out my dick this one time and that was that. i've given up on being powerful now, call me a loser. maybe you can just quit doing the things that are making you feel awkward, and admit that possibly, those things just make you feel awkward period. maybe you can work smarter not "harder?" do more things in life, or with women that you slowly find out you actually enjoy. like meet women in more social situations, with friends, just re-learn and actually think about what -you- want to do.

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