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PostPosted: Wed Dec 18, 2013 11:34 pm 
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In the last few month I've got really closer to that girl, not just friendzoned I guess, but I see her a lot, working together, and I totally fall in love with her.

I always knew she knows about what I feel, I've done nothing with her but esclating kino with her, and trying not to get friendzoned. I know that she has a problem with dating with religious guys like me, so that, including that we are really too different, blocked me from trying to make a move.

yestorday we were together, as always we began touching each other really fast, she sat on my leg, began to kiss each the other cheek and neck, nothing we haven't done before, but I decided to escalting it... put my hand on her belly under her shirt, some touching in the cheeks and hair...

In this point, I've noticed she trying to avoid from letting me the opportunity to kiss her, when our face were close while talking she avoided eye contact, just looking to the side, and covering her mouth when our lips were close like when I've kissed her cheek a bit closer to the lips.

I've decided not to kiss her, but I dont even know how, I just noticed that I was trying to kiss her after she was telling me not to, because it isn't gonna happen. Just then I realized I was trying to kiss her lips after going up from the neck to her cheeks.

I was totally shocked, but just said "Ok, sorry", and continued as nothing happened.
After few minutes we broke the touch(I dont even remember why), and after more few minutes I said that I had to go home(it was really late at night, on the neightboorhood we are living on), I was there about 15 min after the rejection.

She def tried to show me that everything is fine, after the rejection began kissing my neck, today we worked together and everything was normal.

With any other girl I could be sure that I just has to try again later, or even telling that I love her and not gonna give up after trying to kiss her. But this girl is really flirtting with anyone, she has no problem with touching, she is that kind of girl that hug any friend lovely while "asking him to marry her", I've saw many men that got the illusion they can get her easily, and failed(and she was flirtting with them even after she was telling them they have no chance). With any closer friend she is used to sit hugging and things like that, maybe not the way we were, but I can't even know if she has friends that does have such a touch with her on almost daily frequency. So I can't know if all these touches and bond we have are signs that I do have a chance, or I just have to give up(and it will really HURT me).

REALLY need your help...


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 19, 2013 4:34 am 
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The real test is to throw her on your bed and fuck her.

Invite her over (or go over there) and take her hand and lead her to the bedroom. Then kiss her and take her shirt off.

You will get nowhere thinking and wondering; find out for sure.


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 19, 2013 11:35 pm 
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That doesnt gonna happen, leave the reasons, I'm not gonna fuck her for now.

I really need to know your opinion, should I play hard to get? being normal?
Should I even try to get her yet?


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 21, 2013 4:07 am 
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The real test is to throw her on your bed and fuck her.

Invite her over (or go over there) and take her hand and lead her to the bedroom. Then kiss her and take her shirt off.

You will get nowhere thinking and wondering; find out for sure.
I'm pretty sure that counts as rape and rape is more often than not a deal breaker.

As for the OP. Your situation sounds very very strange. You were touching her body and kissing her neck and you got stopped short at the lips? That doesn't make sense at all. If a girl was pulling that kind of shit with me I'd wreck the place. You need to be a little more forceful (while avoiding rape that is). From your story it definitely sounded like the girl wanted the contact in the first place, probably as an ego boost, and that she stop short at kissing because that is more intimate and hints at a commitment. I'm guessing that she holds all of the power and you are bending to her wishes.

So, my advice for you going forward is to take some charge of it yourself. DO NOT APOLOGISE and try to do what you want to do. Next time you find yourself in that situation don't let her begin to touch you, keep some space between you and let her know that you won't fuck around. That you will either kiss or you will do nothing. If she says that you will do nothing then DO NOT reverse yourself, you are playing the long game and one gesture that shows that you have self respect will go a lot further than a little teenage-esque hanky panky. If she is adamant that the answer is no then leave, freeze her out for a day or two and come back strong. I assure you you'll make an impression.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:53 pm 
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I see...

It will really help if you can answer me soon, cuz I'm just going to work with her right now.
This day or two was passing, do I need to began touch her again(In the passing day I avoided her a little, just a hug yestorday and that all)? Does I need to be the one who come and touch or neither of us, do I need to stop her if she start touching me?

If we will be just the two of us(might happen after the work), do I just need to try kiss her and if she stops me I need to freeze the touch, explaining that it's all or nothing? maybe should I just tell that to her?

Thanks!


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 21, 2013 6:18 pm 
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Why don't you ask her on an actual date? It sounds like you just fool around a bit and go no further than that. Ask her out on an actual date and see where it goes from there. That might be what she's looking for.


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don't apologize for trying to kiss her... and if you're kissing on the neck I don't see what the problem is? Keep moving onward.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 22, 2013 7:23 am 
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Dude.... what the FUCK are you doing?

Few months....

No kiss...

In love.....?

My goodness man... I wish I could e-slap some sense into you. Are you 12 years old? You've been talking to this girl for A FEW MONTHS and you're just now trying to kiss her? What are you waiting for...? The end of the world? Shit....


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