Anecdotes are called anecdotes when they aren't good enough to be evidence. Actual evidence is hundreds of cases, not your five or six observations because again you likely ignore cases that go against your world view.

Dominating is one of those things that this community tends to take out of context. You don't have to literally dominate over a woman, you just need to have a dominating outlook on life.
That implies dominating your problems and overcoming them. Controlling tense situations instead of losing your cool. Ruling over your fears and acting in spite of them, etc.
And this doesn't necessarily apply on a macro scale as much as it does on a micro scale. Think interviews, asking for a raise, learning to use the word "no", buying stylish clothes that "just aren't you".
It's pretty obvious but the more you push the habit of making excuses out of your life the more successful you'll become.

Anecdotes are called anecdotes when they aren't good enough to be evidence. Actual evidence is hundreds of cases, not your five or six observations because again you likely ignore cases that go against your world view.

Get in the squat rack and load that fucking barbell as much as you can handle. Lift heavy shit. That'll teach you anything and everything there is to know about being a man.

Your mind changes when you've got 405 pounds on your back and you pull those safety rails out from underneath you. You figure out this mentality of "Figure it out!"

Be a fucking man. Handle your shit. You've got 405 pounds on your back and you're stuck at the bottom of a squat position. You know what happens? Your brain shifts into figure it the fuck out mode.

That's what it means to be a man.... I'm not talking about lifting heavy shit- although that helps.

I'm talking about when you've got the weight of the world on your shoulders, you do what ever you've gotta do to hold that motherfucker up. Make decisions. Sink or swim. Fight or flight.

Being a man is to be the warrior.

You can split the chores and shit if that's what you're talking about being equals... but if you want pussies dripping, be that fucking warrior.


(As a public service announcement: Don't try and squat 405 out of the gate. Get your form down first. It's not my fault if you blow out your knees or fuck up your back. Again, figure it out.)

LMAO...seriously? If you can attract a woman to the point of where she's willing to have sex with you but can't get a woman to want a meaningful relationship with you, that shows that there is a problem with your character.

If you start off from the mental place that you are an amazing guy, and that you don’t need a partner (or anyone else for that matter) to validate you, then you are on the right track. The woman you become attracted to becomes important for you, but not necessarily 'everything'. You don’t depend on her to make you feel important, or like a man, or even loved, because those things are already part of you. Therefore as a man you would still be capable of rational thought, and capable too of knowing that your relationship MAY come to an end, but you know that wouldn’t be the end of the world, because you are a slick enough person to find someone else worthy of your affection.

Ship,

Just by your writing alone, I feel you are very intelligent, a straight thinker, conservative, just, fair.
I'm sure you are reading, absorbing, categorizing. Putting everything in their own little piles - Bullshit - Logical advice - Golden nuggets you'd like to use in the near future.

Very logical.

But that's the problem.


Women Are Not Logical .

Women come pre-wired to think and act based upon their emotions. When a man starts using logic and reason to persuade a woman, right away you are fucked (not in the good way.

Women simply want to have fun and enjoy the moment. There is no thinking or following logical plans when it comes to having fun.

They want to follow YOU to the fun. They expect YOU to lead them to it.

So many men are only focused on getting serious or being serious. They don’t know how to just relax and have a good time. They over-think the fuck out of everything and ruin the fun.

Women want to be in a fairyland, full of rainbows, warm hugs, sunshine, and earth shattering orgasms.

THEY - Do - NOT - GIVE - A - SHIT how they got there, only that they ARE there.

Using logic on their fun to them, is like throwing sand on their cookies. No fun.

Keep that logic Ship, It'll likely earn you lost of money.

But when it comes to women, leave the logic at work, and just have fun.

You are answering a different question.

I really hope Ship is not this analytical, rhetorical, conflicting, and long winded with women. Attractive women would not tolerate this shit for five minutes.

I could see his texts just being novels of sensitivity and philosophy.

If his ultra-sensitive devil's-advocate approach is annoying me, I can only imagine what it looks like popping up on a smartphone.

Ha! This is probably a huge part of the problem he's had.

Yep.

Come off it guys, you can do better.

Yes, go ahead and attack the guy and fail to address the issues he raises. If that makes you feel better about yourself, sure, go right ahead. It's dull & kindof weak but be my guest.

Come off it guys, you can do better.