What is your definition of social status? Down town, you will see DJ's and guys in bands that are with some of the hot bartenders. But if you look closely, these DJs and bartenders are just little kids who are more interested in music than in women. I can tell by looking at them that they don't fuck their girlfriend very well if at all.

Describe a person with social status? I know bar owners down town that DO NOT have their choice of the women. Male bartenders have it easier because they are in the public eye. I can see how this helps them. But think about it, is a male bartender who makes probably $35,000/year the definition of "social status?"

You talked about amount of money, not about social status.

I know you don't have to have a lot of money to get laid, and this isn't gold-digging forum.

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Social status is not that important. It's just a quality. The most important thing is how a woman feels about herself when she's with you and a social status may or may not play into it. Most guys don't have a social status and manage to keep women around.

Wait. Maybe you are talking about high school?

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It depends.
Getting laid versus long-term relationship.
Sure, a woman can have sex with a low status male, but will she stick around him? Maybe not. But social status, yes, that is highly attractive.

As an example, a female acquaintance of mine dated an average schmuck for 2 years. He wasn't much of a provider, according to her. Then she started chatting with a high status male. Guess what? Left her long-term guy and is now married to the high status male. It happens.

While everyone here is talking about DJs and bartenders and club owners, I think most people view status confined to doctors, lawyers, engineers and the CEOs.

Bullshit...

Would you stick with a guy with money that had no social status? Would you stick with a guy that made you happy with no social status?

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Engineer is an ok, above average "status" but not considered that high only perhaps if you are a high level manager in a huge company or a successful engineering firm owner.

Trust me , I 'm an engineer

Its all relative to the situation.

I know a hot girl that hooked up with the medieval knight at one of those medieval themed restaurant's, it's a dead end job to general society but when he was the centre of the attention, it still perceives social status to the current situation.

You see it time and time again....

Girls will rather hook up with their manager, even if it is Starbucks, even better, they'd rather hook up with the boss, let's take it further, they would get with the Starbucks CEO at the Starbucks employee convention...

More examples...Scuba diving instructors, Skydive instructor, I would rather hook up with club's stage dancer than the hot club girl...

etc etc I think you get my point.

We all know that HT23VWY67 views certain occupation as the sole reason for attraction lol

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But instead chased the guy that served her spaghetti and water.

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It's status in general, how important you are relative to other men from the subjective point of view of a woman. The idea of status it's self is malleable and relative to what a person ''values''.
No, you simply have to be appealing comparative to other men. Some things that can help you stand above other men are:

-Good Looks
-Good Fashion
-Fitness
-Confidence
-Good Social Skills
-Good Personality
-Power (either relative to an occupation, physically imposing, or a skill or socially, something that gives you leverage over others)
-Ability to Provide Physical Security
-Material Wealth
-Popularity/Fame
-Talent



I like to think of a tight game as maximizing how easy it is to sleep with you, by taking all the risks, as well as attempting to highlight strengths and ignore/diminish weaknesses socially while simultaneously getting to know someone. There are multiple ways you can frame and present yourself as if you are selling a product. Confidence and high self esteem are a key factor in presentation. There is also something to be said about being able to read people and distinguish how someone is feeling and differentiate politeness/kindness from attraction.


I agree in the sense that how handsome/well dressed you are has a great impact on how you are perceived comparative to other men and just socially in general. Good dressing and good fitness are a good sign that someone has some respect for themselves.

Lmao

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+1 to pumpington. Social status is not dependent on quantitative things like money or specific jobs. As long as you can handle yourself financially, nothing above that really matters.

pumpington's list rejoins Style's LASVEGAS attitude which influences how people perceive you while being simply yourself. For those of you who don't know it :
LOOKS - Be well-groomed, take car of your appearance
ADAPTABILITY - Be able to embrace unexpected situations
STRENGTH - Being true to yourself and sticking with it (don't change your opinion just to agree with others) and take the lead
VALUE - Have social proof, be well surrounded (by other girls preferably or by cool people)
EMOTIONAL CONNECTION - pretty straightforward
GOALS - Know what you want from life and what you'd like to achieve (you need a deep reflection on yourself for that one if you don't it yet)
AUTHENTICITY - DUALITY - Again be true to yourself, but have two faces, e.g. don't be shallow
SELF-WORTH - Believe in yourself and that you deserve the best in this world in an almost cocky way

I believe that the material (money, house, car, expensive clothes, etc) are not a cause, but a consequence of all that. If you concentrate on the material, you will live a shallow life. Don't want to be rich, want to be successful. Money by itself doesn't has no value, the important thing is what you do with the money you have. I have a friend with very little money but his life is just so full of experiences and he is so at peace with himself that whenever he starts talking, everyone in the room shuts up and listens. THAT is status

Ok, sorry my small ranting, i'll leave you to it now.

Who was this high-status male? What did he do?

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Thank you. I was just about to say this. It's easy to get confused in the world of "going down town" into thinking that the shmuck who makes $100/night DJ'ing isn't actually worth anything, even if he has women around him constantly.

The "down town" world is very fake. And how funny is it that you couldn't convince a Hooters waitress that she wasn't worth $1,000,000 when she makes shit money. It just goes to show how FAKE society and people really are.

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How can you have money but no social status? Money is the definition of social status. Unless you are one of the rare millionaires who is just a dork computer nerd. If you have money, you have the ability to gain social status by speaking two words to someone or showing off your car.

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Just like there are wealthy, flashy, lawyers with their billboard all over town, and there are also pussy lawyers who work for the Public Defender's Office.

This was a GOOD THREAD. Thanks, me! I love myself.

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