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I've been dating this girl for about a month now seeing her 2-3 times a week. Everything has been great. Escalated with her fast. Always keeping a sexual vibe with her. Met her closest friends last week and won her over, everything has been perfect and then I get this text... I have NOT responded yet. Looking for advice to turn this around. And funny enough, she sends it the day before i'm leaving for vacation.
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Look I like you I think your a great guy but I can't date you. Yesterday was the worst day of my life for many reasons and I realized that I'm not ready
Jun 18 10:31 am
to date anyone because I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings. I don't want you to be a rebound
Jun 18 10:31 am
I would still want to keep contact and stay as friends
Jun 18 10:31 am
But I don't think I'm ready to date anyone for a really long time
we were going to have a date last night but she never contacted me until 11 pm and said shes been in the hospital for 5 hours because her brother had a fever and had to take him. I don't believe her. Next day I get this.
Your blown out.
Move on, freeze her out.
I wouldn't even answer this bullshit.
If she re-contacts, do not under any circumstances, give up the sexual vibe, or control.
P.S.:
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I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings.
Translation: "I banged my ex, I was not at the hospital, and I plan to bang him tonight too!"