does anybody have a good response for a girl asking "are you gay?" in a ballbusting kinda way.
i have a few responses i use, but i either take it too extreme or end up negging myself coz thats my style of humour.
any suggestions?

I have been asked this before, because I have good fashion sense, care about my looks, and all that stuff.

When a guy says it, I say

"No, sorry."

But if a girl says it, play along with it! Try it out.

There is that line in Mystery Method that says "If I weren't gay, I'd be all over you" or something like that. You have to do what she doesn't expect, and you have to show that you don't give a shit if she is into you or not. You don't care what she thinks of you.

Her: Are you gay or something?
YOU: Yeah, actually. I'm going to pride next week. The parties there are great! But you wouldn't know about that, would you.
Her: Oh... Uh, why wouldn't I know about that? / What do you mean?
YOU: Well, your kinda killing the mood right now. I wouldn't party with you based on that attitude, come on, lets get serious.
...

As the conversation goes on, play with her a bit, use all the principles of game, build attraction and rapport and escalate. Eventually the gay thing will come up again, then you can just tell her you were kidding, or you went straight for her, just for this night, or something. Be creative.

If she has a negative reaction...

Her: Are you gay or something?
YOU: Yeah, I am. blah blah. Blah. / What if I am?
Her: Oh, thought so. [dirty look] / giggles and tries to walk off / turns around / etc.
YOU: Why, does that matter to you? / Oh, so you were interested, then? / Don't be so shallow.

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lol

this is an interesting one to use.

I used it once, the 'if i werent gay...' routine. tbh i didnt want to use it, but i wasnt having a lot of luck one night and i thought i'd try it, just to see what reaction it would get.

Used it on a girl, who, completely opened up to me, let her defenses break, starting telling me all kinds of info. Although i found it hard to convert from'gay' to 'actually im straight'... not sure how to go about that???

however, i see this piece as an interesting alternative, should you want to get soem info out of a girl, perhaps a friend of a girl you want to target. Perhaps she will give you information on the other girl, and maybe that other girl will see you talking to her mate in a friendly way, and thus break the ice with the target... secretly slipping under the radar of course....

worked for me, to initiate. but i had to think on my feet to turn it round.

after a few mins, i hinted how 'sometimes i like girls' and 'sometimes i like a challenge' blah blah etc etc....