| They say that a person knows whether they are attracted to someone within 3 seconds of seeing them. That means that before you even finish your first sentence, the girl has you pegged as a "yes", "no", or a "maybe". Some guys are really fat, ugly, or creepy, and they know it, and girls almost always respond negatively to them. Other guys are good looking, and women generally respond well to them. Guys like me, we are "maybe's" to most women. We aren't their dream guy, but we aren't disgusting looking either, so they'll hear us out if we run good game on them. If you are a "maybe" type guy then girls should at least be hearing you out and not blowing you out right away. If they are, then your opener is jacked up and you need to make some corrections.
That being said, let's start at your opener. Go in with confidence. Be friendly, happy, cool and collected. No goofy stupid shit. No drunken ramblings or nonsense. Engage the whole set and make sure your energy level is higher than theirs, otherwise you will fade away. You don't have to do an opinion opener, but whatever it is that you choose to open with needs some substance to it, or you need a good amount of follow up material behind it.
Here's the thing, you can open with something comedic, but it has to actually get them laughing. You can open with something natural and expected, but it has to turn into something interesting and conversation-worthy. I have a feeling that you jump into the set with a very short and flimsy routine, and the girls quickly start thinking "What's this guy on about?" and then they blow you out. If you did use an opinion opener or did get them really focused on answering some questions or a specific line of dialogue, then you would be able to lock them in better rather then having things rapidly fizzle out. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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