| *EDIT* Got a bit giddy and what I did was the Apocalypse Opener, not Shock & Awe. Duurrrrr.*
Was out this Saturday night, me and my mate rolling in like we were having the greatest time ever,,,boom pow straight in with chatting to people around the bar.
Dancefloor has about 10 HBs of varying quality and them a load of guys stood round the outside watching on, beers up to their chests etc etc.
Fuck it, me and my mate slide right into the mixer and have ourselves a little dance, not explicitly checking anybody out to begin with, then start to pop a few teasing looks out. AFter 5 minutes, it was like dominoes, we'd danced with pretty much all the girls and the territory was marked.
I'll tell you one thing: up until reading up on the whole PUA thing I never noticed the AFC style behaviour - all the guys trying too hard to be cool stood round the outside were broken men...couldnt beleive that we'd just bowled in and weren't just crawling all over the women, like they would. Compounded when the women started to come to us hahaha.
Now, enter the AMOGS. Obviously seeing it as an affront they started to try and muscle in (hilarious as my mate is well, a bodybuilding fanatic personal trainer and I'm over 6ft) - rather than pussy out like AFCs or DLV by getting drawn into it, we just basically moonwalked and span around them to an area about two feet away. The look on the guys face when the women turned to face us, thus turning their back on the AMOGS was priceless. They didnt bother us after that.
Danced with a few more chicks, some guys were basically rolling in and slapping us high fives, social proof was pretty much established.
I believed social proof as a concept but thats the first time I've seen in confirmed in the field - guys were stopping to let us past on stairs, sidling over at the bar - ridiculous. I'll stress here that at no point were we being aggressive or anything like that, we'd just set our frame to such a degree that it was probs a little intimidating.
So I'm having a good time, confidence is high I see this HB8 throwing some IOIs and she's slightly away from here friends feet pointed toward me - I'd seen her earlier and she was pretty vocal, defo the leader of her pack.
*PING* I think lets try an Apocalypse, never used it before.
I slide up and here goes:
Me: Hey, hows it's going?
HB8: Yeah good
Me: What you up too later
HB8: Dunno, why?
Me: Wanna come home with me? (asked as if I was asking if she wanted a crisp)
BOOM. POW. ZZAP.
Me Tarzan. She Jane.
The eyes man, the eyes. She was stunned. Speechless, came over all shy, all that vocalness gone.
I wait. Some triangle gazing. 30 seconds pass.
HB8: Yeah, I do.
However the story goes a bit sour here, I tell her to wait while I go see how my man is getting on and some chump has cowardly headbutted him as he left the toliets, literally as soon as he opened the door this guy has been waiting and butted, totally off guard - he's ok but a little pissed off, naturally - turns out some jealous dude had taken exception to his girlfriend checking out my mate (god's honest truth he's a married man and he literally did nothing, I was the one leading all the moves etc)
I go back #close the HB8 (just give her my phone and nod) and me and my mate bounce - the SPAM around my man wasn't a positive one.
So for my first night out following some PUA study I learned a lot.
1. Establish social proof and it becomes easy, just keep an eye for jealous fucks and have your back covered.
2. The Apocalypse (and Shock & Awe) is shit that every dude needs in his locker to throw out - indirect game is tres useful but with enough social proof and confidence, it can be eschewed in favour of some direct game.
3. Don't pussyfoot about hangin around the sidelines, just bust on in.
My man went home, I decide to do some solo sarging in another club. Fuck me, I learned a lot from that too, but thats for another post!
Last edited by calimoxo on Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:47 am, edited 2 times in total.
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