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Hey Roland,
A lot of good advice already in there from the other lads! Luckily for you your one of the elite who are sincerly working on your game so your recovery should be accelerated. One must select the appropriate advice to use on a case by case basis. In your case, I would strongly suspect that your best bet would be to cut her completely out of your life. It sounds harsh and while in principle, remaining friends is a noble ideal, in my own bitter experience, women are masters of winning the post-break up game and you need peace and time to recover while gently working on your game and looking for little gains. Personally, after a three and a half year relationship I went down the friends route and just couldnt hack it when her serious boyfriends started to trickle in further down the line because at the time i was an AFC times ten! So, for your own sake, after a two year relationship, minimise contact with her. Be pleasant, brief and civil if she contacts you but dont pursue anything with her. Good hunting!

Like you're saying, there's been some good advice here. About cutting her out of my life, I've already kind of done so. It's been a half year now, and at first I was really AFC, calling her and doing all the stupid things AFC's do. Then I read the Game and became interested in the community. She had already been fooling around with guys, and that was when I decided to cut her out. I blocked her on msn and never contacted her for a couple of months.
However, in the last two months I ran into her a couple of times while going out, and we had some great fun. I unblocked her and every now and then we had some fluff talk. We even talked about going out some time, to play some pool. I know this isn't really the best idea, but deep down I still kind of hope I get her back.
Now I'm thinking about it, I should actually cut her out again for my own good, but then again, it kind of has two sides to it. It's a pickle.
But in the meantime I'm working on my game and I'm going out again this weekend.
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sorry to hear man, I had a misses for 3years she left me for another guy... so now I wanna be a good PUA!!! she will get extremly pissed off if she sees me out and about picking up girls haha, I dont even talk to her anymore I deleted her msn, gotta move on!! Get bitches!!
That sucks man, I hope you succeed in pissing her off
