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Listen dude, here's the thing about those infield videos: THATS SHOW OFF GAME. THATS FLASHY "LOOK HOW QUICKLY I CAN GET A MAKEOUT" TYPE GAME. I'm trying to show you the type of game that actually gets you laid. Not a quick MAKEOUT and then the girl gets buyers remorse and feels weird for making out with you so quickly. I don't care about the infield footage you've seen. I'm talking from real experiences that I myself have had and my students have had and my friends have had.
Yes it is possible to go straight to touching but you are very often gonna get buyers remorse from the girl and she's gonna feel weird about it afterwards. Even if you push it all the way to sex, she'll most likely feel weird about it after sex an feel weird ever having sex with you again (unless she's a certain type of girl).
I know exactly what you are talking about and tht is one of the problems with the community right now. I've seen it soo many times. I've seen my friend (who thankfully finally stopped doing this) makeout with a girl within literally 1-2 minutes, maybe 5 minutes tops. BUT, just like clockwork, like 5-10 minutes later the girls would get all embarrassed and would end up running back to their friends. You are literally putting her ASD into overdrive by making out with her so quickly. So at the end of the night, I would go home with a girl and have fun and he would leave the bar by himself because he made out with the girl too quick. That's what the infield footage isn't showing you. They show you these guys getting quick makeouts cuz it looks cool, but unless you are about to fuck a really easy girl who is just straight up DTF, it will most likely backfire on you.
With statements of intent, you stay out of the "creep zone" by first innocently flirting with her then starting with a small not-so-threatening statement of intent and you build it up.
i like this guy. this is actually very true. i made out with a girl within 30 seconds at the club last week, just for fun, no intention of taking her home. but afterwards, she just wasnt keen anymore and i never got another kiss or her number.
but thanks everyone for the posts, has been good help. im a pretty confident dude so im sure ill handle it, its just good to have feedback on the situation. cheers boys