So I've known this girl for about 4 years. We hooked up 4 years ago but we never talked in that 4 year period. She had a boyfriend but they broke up, so now that I initiated conversation, she is really attentive and interested in me.

We hung out and she started texting me like crazy after we hung out. I'm pretty sure she likes me, judging by the stuff that she says (and I made it pretty clear that I like her too) considering that we flirt with each other. She said that she would call me the day after but never did.

I was just wondering if I should begin to initiate conversation or if I should keep up my game some more and just not speak to her as much. I am just afraid that she wants me to talk to her (which she does) and I will make her lose interest because i havent spoken to her in a few days.

Suggestions?

Alright Don... take a deep breath and now go to the mirror and repeat after me...
"I am not an AFC, so why am I acting like one?"

Bro remember this rule that my friend who is a natural PUA taught me. He said that if you meet a girl and hangout/talk a lot, and don't do anything physical then you will eventually make her loose interest in you or get friend-zoned. From your post, it looks like you didn't do any kino, or physical escalation when you met her after 4 years. She just broke up, so she might just be looking for ppl to talk to just to make her feel special or something. Girls do that a lot. Any girl no matter how HB1 she is will have some guy buying her drinks or showing affection and attention if she just shows him a little interest.

Cut down on your talk time. Initially talk to just set up dates and that's it. If you have all the conversations over the phone or text then when you actually meet her, what are you going to talk about the weather? I'm not saying don't text her back if she texts you... just text her after a while. Somewhere on this thread is how long you should wait before texting back... BS!!! just use your common sense and don't carry a conversation via text.

Hope this helps...and next time you see her... kino escalate! Hope this helps Bro... and remember... have fun while you're at it... that's the whole point of dating and socializing...right?

Thanks a lot this was actually really helpful!