I met this Japanese girl through a friend of mine. I'm learning Japanese so it was interesting for me to meet more people from there. But there's a catch, she's also super cute. I fall for her immediately while i see her sitting at the sushi bar where i work as a busboy (student job) waiting for my shift to finish. Me and my friends were going for a few drinks and she was in the group.

So fast forward at the bar and the mood in the group is dead, so i bring up drinking games with her and eventually the whole group started playing. So after a share of fun, we go walking the girls in the group home because it's a bit dangerous at night and she asks for my phone number, i didn't have mine so i typed it in her phone.

This was Sunday. So i call her up Wednesday night for a small date Friday, i just planned on a small walk and a coffee/tea since forecasts announced rain, but it was super sunny. So instead we get breakfast at a restaurant and then i walk her all around town, showing her interesting things. She laughs at my jokes constantly, does not reject small kino, proves herself to be a very down to earth gal. I got so comfortable in this that i forgot to neg and use cocky and funny, and was pretty much nice to her most of the time. I felt like the IoI's were not super strong .

She accepts my challenge at pool at a later date, where the loser cooks for the winner. She invites me in her apartment when i drop her off (no sex, i think she just trusted a lot), and when she's saying thank you (as i am about to leave) i point to my cheek and she kisses it, taking her time and closing her eyes (a bit more sensual than a normal cheek kiss).

I know that i could have built up a lot more sexual tension, but i got too comfortable and stayed in that zone too long. But is it too late? or is it still on and i can use the comfort i built here to start a better kino escalation on the next date?
Also, when a girl is the shy type, is it possible that the IoIs seem slower and less intense?
I know i started on the slow side, let me know if i should proceed at the same pace or push it a little.

Nice work bro thats some good game
It's a safisticated alpha sort of game.

it's not to late she is still into you.
You HAVE to intiate with her.. alot of japanese are shy and it is going to be hard as fuck....
Take it to a hole new level with japanese talk.
There is no rush in your game unless your doing a club scene.

Escalte the kino next time and get more sexual.

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so, next date should be a pool match and a small walk through the campus where she studies (it's really romantic at night) and back to her place. I'll have to teach her how to play, so it's a great opportunity for kino, and the romantic setting of the campus will be great for a 1st kiss.

If i don't really feel good IoIs, I'll wait until the inevitable cooking date for the kiss, as she might still feel uncomfortable in this (she came from Japan only 1 semester ago). What do you guys think?