Whats up fellas, I run into this situation sometimes and I'm not sure what to do. Heres an example of what happened yesterday:

I went to a halloween party, saw a girl I hooked up with before (just made out) there, so chatted with her and told her I'd call her later.
Two parties and 4 hours later, I'm back at my apartment and I text her.
conversation goes something like
Me: hey i'm back...come say goodnight to me.
HB: how bout you come say goodnight to me?
Me: Come meet me then in front of my building
HB: Too far! meet me in front of my building i'll be downstairs
Me: Fine Fine woman where do you live
HB: (tells me where she lives)

First of all, did i just give in to her shit test? It seemed like if I kept telling her to come to my place to one-up her test would have resulted in nothing happening. What else should I have done?


Ok, then I met her up outside and we started making out after saying about two words to each other. Went back to her apartment, on her bed. Kino escalation, got her top and bra off. Gave a little finger action, but then she said "No not today" when I tried to take her shorts off. So took it easy for a while, just kissing and nothing else. Then escalated again with finger action then tried to take her shorts off again. Same thing happened.

So what should I have done? Any ideas?


Also, do you guys think its better for me to be more direct? It seems like in my attempt to not go through her "hoops" that I'm not being as direct as I should be.

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PUA or die, bitches

She was definitely in control of the frame during your text, but she wanted you...she probably just didn't want to seem like a slut. So her defense popped up when it got heavy. Did you try to freeze her out? Maybe you should of suggested something boring like playing yahtzee...then started up again. I think that's a hard one to call...better wait for the big boys on this one...

She isn't letting go easily by letting you fuck her so early it will mean you are very dominant over her. She will let go but not yet

PUA or die, bitches! haha, awesome.

Its ok that you went to her place.. you obviously had enough good rapport with her earlier to give in knowing you would get somewhere. One thing I like to do is hit all her hot zones and forget about the T and A for a while.
You avoid those areas and it sets you apart first of all. Remember, she has her reputation and she can't just "give it up like that!"

You get her hot enough and leave those areas alone, those shorts would have melted off. Nape of neck, earlobes are money, belly button, just the erogenous zones in general, ya know?

Too many guys jump in head first and expect the girl to give it up right away. Sometimes they do, sometimes they dont, but they all like to be treated as if their goods are regal. Just be respectful of her body and she will be a lot more willing to do the damn thang!

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Make Moves

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Period?

It has happened to me a number of times mate.

Think about it 25% of the time (if she is on the pill which hopefully she is) you cant. (well I wont do a f close during period) but yeah you can always go in the shower.

well.... i've been known to do this trick a time or two....

when the making out is getting pretty serious, casually pull out your "dude piston". most of the time this move will get your "lap rocket" some attention.