Hello guys, I really need help with this..

From around 2 years ago I was at a club, I met this girl, she actually opened me by picking up her phone from her pocket and then she put it on her ears and then she cried and came over to me and gave me a hug.. I was very shy back then, she told me my boyfriend says that he don't know me, I said "for real?" and nothing more.. Then after sometime my friends girlfriend told us to kiss. I looked at the girl and told her, if she wants then why not. And we started to make out.. Her jelouse friend wanted to tung me too, I was very shy I didn't know anything about game so she just come up to me and tung me, she was a bit fat but good looking..

Then i went the dance floor with the girl which opened me and tunged with her around 40 times. Remember, I have not said any word to the girls at all.. She opened me and her friend suddenly popped up..

Then they both asked me about my number, I gave them and yeah.. Next day she told me she wanna met with me again.. When I was around her I didn't have anything to say I totally freezed up.. Then she invited me out once again with her friends this time.. And I still totally froze up, the girls were talking about how many times they got raped by a guy, also the guy fucking them without them wanting it... Now the girl which opened me 2 years ago and such. Has birthday today.. So I wanna be friend with her again I bet she forgotten everything about me, so how am I gonna do that? Please help me, I keep running out of things to say I seriously have problems with this...

So I wanna pm her private on facebook happy birthday and such, what can I say more? Please help me guys..

Hi,

You seem to be pointing out you own issue, you freeze and have nothing to say to girls.. Something that I really enjoy doing at the start is reading them, reading there character, it seem to melt certain shields away because I see them for who they really are rather then the bullshit image they put up.

So if I were you I would pick up one of the good dating books out there, your going to have google them yourself. And get reading about negs, conversation, IOI's and IOD. You still seem quite a begginer, and its not very useful asking us for advice if you cannot raise a conversation.

Firstly you need to drop the shy guy. Inmagine you were someone extreemly confident and cocky. Make yourself that person, if you feel it, soon it will become you. Also learn some canned conversation to start with, but always make sure you have plent of your personal stories to say.. think about 20 before going out so there fresh on your mind.

At this point what I suggest is picking up a book like David Deangelos double your dating, and read it from top to bottom. Then continue your research from there.

If I were in your position, I would hit her in private message and tell her that your wishing her a happy birthday.. and the contiue on to say "its a damn shame we lost contact, you were a lovely girl to hang out with.".. but since hte conversation might end there, use canned responses for any way she reacts, hopefully positive.. and if she doesnt then.. she probably remember hows shy you were. So remember potential conversations.

1. When I was younger - has to be funny dont say you caught your cat on fire.
2. You seem like a fun girl, do you go out often - await response then say: i know this great club but I doubt you have the stamina for it.

Tease and compliment is the key to facebook messaging.. at least this is my unexpert opinion.

Thanks for your respond dude! Your truly right. I need some canned lines, and thats very hard for me to do.. I need some examples.. What would you write to her if you were in my position? I'm not even that shy at all, I just don't know what to do, and I'm not 100% confidence yet. So yeah.. Please respond..